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This one is a first for me. It wasn't my fault, the company got shut down by the state. I'm a little depressed about it. I'm sure it will be easy to find another job but probably not one as meaningful. Its got me a little bummed out. Add family drama to that and personal drama and paol drama.

Anyone else ever been laid off? How'd you feel about it?

This one is a first for me. It wasn't my fault, the company got shut down by the state. I'm a little depressed about it. I'm sure it will be easy to find another job but probably not one as meaningful. Its got me a little bummed out. Add family drama to that and personal drama and paol drama. Anyone else ever been laid off? How'd you feel about it?

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Yep. A non-profit I worked at about ten years ago went under. I was the first wave of lay-offs. Everyone else was laid-off six weeks later after they all completed their annual grant reports. I had been there about three years. The org has shuttered since then.

The writing was on the wall though. We were an entirely new set of employees hired after the original's quit fot not being paid almost three months straight. The org went off of a skeleton crew for six months, then did a mass hire of us. Our CEO was literally a Hillary Clintonite Jr. (some of the things Clinton said on the campaign trail gave me shudders because it sounded so terribly familiar -- gross!). My immediate boss was a board member volunteer who wasn't even getting paid. He straight up told me and another co-worker at one of our weekly meetings two months before the lay-off to have a back up plan. I didn't of course because I was in my 20's care free and fancy.

I had given a lot to that job though. I worked through Christmas, and even when I flew home for my Grandfathers funeral worked on the flight to meet a deadline. What I learned is you are dispensable . After that I stopped putting my heart and soul into work projects. At 5pm I am done, end of story. If I can't get the project done, than the onerous is on you (as my boss) to bring in more hands and help. (In non-profit there is always more work than staff and everything is an emergency, so there will always be a reason to work longer and harder).

Anyway, to finish the story, with no plan I litterally drove to the closes university and enrolled in a random Grad program just so I could get enough loan money to live (bad, bad idea..Don't do this guys..it was the recession and NOBODY was hiring. I straight up hid in the grad program to ride out the unemployment shitstorm). I didn't think I would get in. Surprise, I did! I worked my butt off and had some incredible career opourtunities....but then I met my husband six weeks before graduation. We eloped the same weekend I graduated and he knocked me up a few weeks later. I did a few solid full-time office jobs since then, but chose to be a stay at home mom. I am thinking of going into business myself though. I have a lot of passion to work, but I don't want it to be for someone else. I want to reap the benefits. And yes, I have student loans out the ass.

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Wow that was quite the roller coaster of a story. I paid for my wife to go to school, many hours spent working shit jobs and she is now a stay at home mom and I couldn't be happier. I've knocked her up 3 times now 4 if you count the one that didn't take. I think you found your place. Women in general are happier raising kids, and there is nothing wrong with that. I am so happy I managed to find a wife who for the most part enjoys raising our kids and making our home god knows I couldn't do either. I can barely manage to keep up my study let alone a house. Good on you for taking care of your kids and make sure your husband knows you love him.