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Me: divorced forty something practicing Orthofox earning good money in a bullshit field

Her: divorced late thirties practicing catholic but okay with Orthodoxy. Earning good money in legit field.

Together for four years. We have talked marriage but both "slow movers" cause of poor marriage choices in our youths.

All good until recently. She has never been very political and of the view of "is all bs." Recently she has become very anti ICE.

Her: "These are people just trying to make better lives."

Me: "I don't give a fuck. I have to pay for private school for my son because public sucks thanks to watering down for immigrants, look at the DHS 'worst of worst list..." (etc and so forth and obbious reasons)

We argue over that a lot. I'm tired of the argument.

We are great other than that.

She recognizes other races and "cultures" are less than whites, but seems to be bleeding heart on this hill that we need to be kind to "immigrsnts looking for better" and accommodate.

She's missing the fucking point.

She's great other than that... but am I beating my head against a wall?

Me: divorced forty something practicing Orthofox earning good money in a bullshit field Her: divorced late thirties practicing catholic but okay with Orthodoxy. Earning good money in legit field. Together for four years. We have talked marriage but both "slow movers" cause of poor marriage choices in our youths. All good until recently. She has never been very political and of the view of "is all bs." Recently she has become very anti ICE. Her: "These are people just trying to make better lives." Me: "I don't give a fuck. I have to pay for private school for my son because public sucks thanks to watering down for immigrants, look at the DHS 'worst of worst list..." (etc and so forth and obbious reasons) We argue over that a lot. I'm tired of the argument. We are great other than that. She recognizes other races and "cultures" are less than whites, but seems to be bleeding heart on this hill that we need to be kind to "immigrsnts looking for better" and accommodate. She's missing the fucking point. She's great other than that... but am I beating my head against a wall?
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I actually don't know what you should do.

Women as a group are just bad at this sort of thing. Their great strength in one arena makes them hopelessly incompetent in others.

I lean towards: keep her and keep your opinions.

Just do not cuck out, be nice but don't break frame, not for an instance. If she leaves it's all on her. Work out and continue building a nice life so you can replace her if she bails on you.

The thing is, women are suffering from a sensory illusion. Like if you slept on your arm and you woke up feeling pins and needles because the circulation was cut off. That feeling is false information. There are no pins poking you. Your arm just feels that way. You can find optical illusions online that will trick your eyes into giving false or misleading data.

Emotions are also a sense.

They feed information to us just like our skin, eyes and nose do. Just as those senses can sometimes feed us illusions so do our emotions. Feeling something can point to the truth or not. You have to reflect on it.

Women feel deep down in their core with extreme conviction that is hard wired into their soul that if you give compassion and help to something weak and beset by trouble that it will change into something else. Something that's good and fundamentally different than it was before. Something that will ultimately love you back and care for you once the metamorphosis is seen to the end with enough caring and compassion.

Women are actually correct about this. It's completely true.

As long as you're talking about a human baby.

Completely and totally wrong in just about every other case, but with infants and toddlers, yes it's correct. They will grow up to be an adult far more capable, intelligent, and strong than the infant they were and will care for you in your old age.

We should be glad women feel this way. It was written into them by cosmic forces older and wiser than any of us so they could be good mothers. If the evolutionists are correct it was natural selection acting across millions of years because women without that feeling and conviction were not good mothers and their children didn't make it. If humans did not evolve but were designed then it was our creator, God in Heaven, who wrote that belief into women's hearts.

The problem is they feel that way in all sorts of inappropriate situations and can't tell their perception of reality is completely incorrect.

Pitbulls, when fully developed, have a temperament that can become suddenly violent without warning. They will not develop out of it. It is innate, present when mature, and can't be altered with compassionate nurturing. It could only be changed with modern genetic engineering or selective breeding.

A cactus, when fully developed, is covered with sharp needles. They will not develop out of it. It is innate, present when mature, and can't be altered with compassionate nurturing. It could only be changed with modern genetic engineering or selective breeding.

The average Somalian, when fully developed, has a more violent nature on account of the MAOA gene. They have a lower IQ and higher time preference. They will not develop out of it. It is innate, present when mature, and can't be altered with compassionate nurturing. It could only be changed with modern genetic engineering or selective breeding.

Accepting them and all other non whites as community members puts everyone else at risk from their violent and antisocial behaviors which are inborn and can't be nurtured away. It also creates permanent costs because they need to be propped up since they can never match white achievement on account of their low IQ and high time preference. I speak of averages of course. We all know about bell curves and outliers.

I think our task, which may not even be possible, is to guide white women away from the situations they can not perceive correctly. Like herding a blind man from the edge of cliff. Or telling a color blind man not to touch the blue ring octopus. Or alerting a deaf man of an oncoming train.

You can try to tell her her feelings are misleading her. Getting her pregnant or gifting her a golden retriever puppy so she has a baby or a pet to mother instead of retarded migrants might be more effective than talk though.

Good luck.

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These are all true. The golden retriever idea might low key be brilliant.