Discussion of feelings is for faggots and women. Men discuss difficult points that have concrete concepts. Not feelings.
If I asked you to analyze a poem I post you won’t tell me how you fell about it or how it makes you feel. You will dissect it for its form, function, prose, style and if it follows the Rules set forth by the composition of the type of poem it follows.
Take that and apply it to conversations.
Feelings aren’t what people debate.