Nothing wrong in my mind talking about shit at work, even if it had nothing at all do with the work. You've got to be there anyways to get paid, so might as well enjoy the conversation. If it goes beyond work and you're texting with another woman when you're laying bed with your wife, then that's a problem.
Men and women aren't meant to be friends outside of a marriage.
100%. I've pretty much always known this and avoided women as just friends, particularly when I was single. My dad always said it was gay to have girls as friends when I was younger. But yeah, just got sort of caught up in the moment of meeting someone in real life that is on board with a lot of the same stuff as me. But it's not fair to my wife to be giving her attention and time. I get it. Thanks man.
Yeah, I totally get it. And on the other end, it's also really weird to literally avoid talking with women at work.
And I also get what everyone else is saying. Things can go south real quick, and the workplace is the most common place that people start affairs.
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