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Is it weird to have a friend who is a girl as a married man? I recently found out one of my female coworkers knows all about the jews and shit going on in the world. I'm surrounded by NPC faggots, niggers and screeching catty women all day for many years so she has kind of been a breath of fresh air. we've been chatting a lot about stuff outside of work. I talk to my wife about her and she's cool with it. I just never really had a girl as a "close" friend before and it feels kinda gay... But I'm married to a woman sooo does that negate the gayness?

Is it weird to have a friend who is a girl as a married man? I recently found out one of my female coworkers knows all about the jews and shit going on in the world. I'm surrounded by NPC faggots, niggers and screeching catty women all day for many years so she has kind of been a breath of fresh air. we've been chatting a lot about stuff outside of work. I talk to my wife about her and she's cool with it. I just never really had a girl as a "close" friend before and it feels kinda gay... But I'm married to a woman sooo does that negate the gayness?

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[–] • 2 pts

Not gay as long as you're keeping your wife happy. Happy wife, happy life. If your friend is attractive too, may God help you.

[–] • 1 pt

Yeah the wife is happy and she was happy for me when I told her this chick knows about all this stuff and I have someone to talk to about it. I just worry that it's going too far. That I'm spending too much time talking to her and it's taking my attention away from the family. She is cute too so yeah... Bad news all around. I gotta man up and drop it.

[–] • 1 pt

she was happy for me when I told her this chick knows about all this stuff and I have someone to talk to about it

Can you talk to your wife about politics, jews, etc? If not, I doubt your wife is as happy about your new friend on the inside as she appears to be on the outside.

Yeah, I'd explain it all to your friend. She should hold you in higher esteem if you put your wife and family first, though she might not be happy about it particularly if she had entertained thoughts of more from you. I think your wife would be ecstatic. If your friend gets a boyfriend, you and your wife could socialize with them and have good times together without your wife's imagination running rampant.

All it takes is a moment of weakness to really fuck everything up, or a wife who feels inadequate or neglected because you you have a female friend that you spend too much time with. That's when it really sucks - you didn't do anything wrong but get blamed/accused anyway and face the irreparable consequences. Trust is a most important foundation in a marriage.

Good luck.

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Yeah I can talk to my wife about stuff to a degree. We're definitely on the same page with everything but she gets overwhelmed and "doesn't like thinking about" all the dark messed up stuff in the world all the time. It just sort of freaks her out, understandably. But yeah everything you're saying makes sense. I tell myself I'm in control and would never do anything to hurt my wife but like you said, it only takes one moment and then it's all screwed up. She seems halfway reasonable so I just gotta tell her how it is and that I can't be spending so much time talking to her. She's starting to confide a lot of personal stuff about her life which sucks cause I feel like she trusts me but yeah its going a little to far. Thanks again for all the advice