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Is it weird to have a friend who is a girl as a married man? I recently found out one of my female coworkers knows all about the jews and shit going on in the world. I'm surrounded by NPC faggots, niggers and screeching catty women all day for many years so she has kind of been a breath of fresh air. we've been chatting a lot about stuff outside of work. I talk to my wife about her and she's cool with it. I just never really had a girl as a "close" friend before and it feels kinda gay... But I'm married to a woman sooo does that negate the gayness?

Is it weird to have a friend who is a girl as a married man? I recently found out one of my female coworkers knows all about the jews and shit going on in the world. I'm surrounded by NPC faggots, niggers and screeching catty women all day for many years so she has kind of been a breath of fresh air. we've been chatting a lot about stuff outside of work. I talk to my wife about her and she's cool with it. I just never really had a girl as a "close" friend before and it feels kinda gay... But I'm married to a woman sooo does that negate the gayness?

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Yeah I can talk to my wife about stuff to a degree. We're definitely on the same page with everything but she gets overwhelmed and "doesn't like thinking about" all the dark messed up stuff in the world all the time. It just sort of freaks her out, understandably. But yeah everything you're saying makes sense. I tell myself I'm in control and would never do anything to hurt my wife but like you said, it only takes one moment and then it's all screwed up. She seems halfway reasonable so I just gotta tell her how it is and that I can't be spending so much time talking to her. She's starting to confide a lot of personal stuff about her life which sucks cause I feel like she trusts me but yeah its going a little to far. Thanks again for all the advice

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If she's confiding personal stuff, this is an emotional affair just waiting to happen.

It is theoretically possible that a woman can be friends with men, but there needs to be strict personal boundaries on her part. Source: I'm a woman, are married, and have male friends that I have no intention of being with romantically. But that's because my husband is my #1 priority.