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Is it weird to have a friend who is a girl as a married man? I recently found out one of my female coworkers knows all about the jews and shit going on in the world. I'm surrounded by NPC faggots, niggers and screeching catty women all day for many years so she has kind of been a breath of fresh air. we've been chatting a lot about stuff outside of work. I talk to my wife about her and she's cool with it. I just never really had a girl as a "close" friend before and it feels kinda gay... But I'm married to a woman sooo does that negate the gayness?

Is it weird to have a friend who is a girl as a married man? I recently found out one of my female coworkers knows all about the jews and shit going on in the world. I'm surrounded by NPC faggots, niggers and screeching catty women all day for many years so she has kind of been a breath of fresh air. we've been chatting a lot about stuff outside of work. I talk to my wife about her and she's cool with it. I just never really had a girl as a "close" friend before and it feels kinda gay... But I'm married to a woman sooo does that negate the gayness?

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[–] • 24 pts

I am a firm believer that men and women cannot be friends. Nothing but trouble will come of it. If you're happy with your wife you should not be making friends with other women. Familiarity breeds intimacy.

[–] • 1 pt

Yeah I never had girls as friends especially when I was single because I've always thought that was just kinda gay and lame. It's funny tho that I'm surrounded by retards all day, trying to convince family and friends or what's going on behind the scenes and they just don't get it, super frustrated with everyone in the real world. Then this chick comes outta no where, and gets all this stuff. Guess I just got a little excited. But yeah just bad news down the line I'm sure. Thanks

[–] [deleted] • 10 pts

Would you fuck her if you were single? If yes then don't be friends. Women knowing things is suspicious anyway.

[–] • 5 pts

Remember

a work 10 is a street 6

[–] • 0 pt

A street 6 would be a 2 around 40 years ago

[–] • 0 pt

I think this is it right here. I was internet friends with a lady in Ohio, and we've both established we never did and never will like each other like that. She's not even unattractive on the outside, but I just don't like her personality in a romantic kind of way. She's funny and interesting to talk to, though.

[–] • 6 pts

Only if this friend is fat and ugly, basically guaranteeing that you will have no interest in her, ever.

Just my observation, but any woman (who isn't a blood relative) will always fall for you if they only spend enough time around you. Women inherently know this, which is why they know to clearly push away any man that they are not interested in when he just says "hi", and why men come up with little ways to spend time with a woman, like buying her a drink.

If she is willing to hang around you, and she knows you're married, I can almost with 100% certainty tell you that she has already thought about you, and her, together, and this decision of hers to talk to you and spend time with you, is a step towards trying to steal you from your wife.

If you love your wife, and want to avoid a divorce, distance yourself from the other woman. Don't ever hang out with any woman other than your wife and blood relatives.

[–] • 2 pts (edited )

Appreciate this. Yeah makes perfect sense. I honestly thought when I started talking about my wife and kids to her that she would sort of start to distance herself but the opposite happened, she started talking to me more.. it was cool while it lasted. Thanks for the input.

[–] • 2 pts

If you have a woman, all women view you as more attractive/desirable because some other woman being with you is advertising that you are desirable.

[–] • 2 pts

Right. Yeah it's a blessing and a curse.

[–] • 0 pt

Man nabbing bitches at heart

[–] • 2 pts

Your observation does line up with what I have seen in the workplace. Makes me wonder if the push to get women in the workforce, which is directly an attack on the family unit as we all know, But could this be also an attack vector by way of married women and men in the workplace cheating and thus divorce and breaking apart the family. If not intentional it's definitely happening either way.

[–] • 5 pts

Nothing wrong in my mind talking about shit at work, even if it had nothing at all do with the work. You've got to be there anyways to get paid, so might as well enjoy the conversation. If it goes beyond work and you're texting with another woman when you're laying bed with your wife, then that's a problem.

Men and women aren't meant to be friends outside of a marriage.

[–] • 1 pt

100%. I've pretty much always known this and avoided women as just friends, particularly when I was single. My dad always said it was gay to have girls as friends when I was younger. But yeah, just got sort of caught up in the moment of meeting someone in real life that is on board with a lot of the same stuff as me. But it's not fair to my wife to be giving her attention and time. I get it. Thanks man.

[–] • 1 pt

Yeah, I totally get it. And on the other end, it's also really weird to literally avoid talking with women at work.

And I also get what everyone else is saying. Things can go south real quick, and the workplace is the most common place that people start affairs.

[–] • 3 pts

Where is ex-feminist she should be an expert about this

[–] • 3 pts

It's fine, as long as you're capable of exercising a modicum of self control. You're not a nigger, are you?

[–] • 3 pts

You really shouldn't confide in women. May be harmless but women are devious unknowable creatures, and this chic will end up costing you something in some way

[–] • 1 pt

Damn. Yeah unfortunately I think you're right. She's already costing me time and energy so the sooner I cut the contact the better before it gets worse. Thanks

[–] • 3 pts

Nobody cares and your question is retarded.

What I am really interested in knowing is how you and your coworker both found out that you know about the jews. How did that come up as a topic of conversation? Did you broach it or did she? What was exactly said?

[–] • 2 pts

> Nobody cares and your question is retarded.

Proceeds to ask a lot of questions. Hahah

[–] • 1 pt

You're question is retarded, but the situation you're in is interesting.

Like if you told me you were about to go meet with some CIA operatives in Taiwan to discuss rigging the outcome of their next election with Nancy Pelosi, but you didn't know whether to wear black or brown shoes.

The question is boring and retarded, but I'm really curious how you got into that situation in the first place.

[–] • 1 pt

I get you. It is pretty lame question but I'm a young smooth brained retard so I can't help myself. It was pretty weird how it all came about. She's probably a damn spy sent to gather Intel on me..

[–] • 2 pts

If you keep a distance and talk at work just like colleagues, it could work. The moment you start hangin out outside of work you are cheating on your wife and you know it. Even now you have deep inside of you feelings for this woman weather you know it or not, better cut them out before you unnecessarily complicate your life.

[–] • 2 pts

Yeah I try to tell myself it's all good, we just talking but you're right those feelings are brewing... Get out while I can. Thanks man.

[–] • 2 pts

Not gay as long as you're keeping your wife happy. Happy wife, happy life. If your friend is attractive too, may God help you.

[–] • 1 pt

Yeah the wife is happy and she was happy for me when I told her this chick knows about all this stuff and I have someone to talk to about it. I just worry that it's going too far. That I'm spending too much time talking to her and it's taking my attention away from the family. She is cute too so yeah... Bad news all around. I gotta man up and drop it.

[–] • 1 pt

she was happy for me when I told her this chick knows about all this stuff and I have someone to talk to about it

Can you talk to your wife about politics, jews, etc? If not, I doubt your wife is as happy about your new friend on the inside as she appears to be on the outside.

Yeah, I'd explain it all to your friend. She should hold you in higher esteem if you put your wife and family first, though she might not be happy about it particularly if she had entertained thoughts of more from you. I think your wife would be ecstatic. If your friend gets a boyfriend, you and your wife could socialize with them and have good times together without your wife's imagination running rampant.

All it takes is a moment of weakness to really fuck everything up, or a wife who feels inadequate or neglected because you you have a female friend that you spend too much time with. That's when it really sucks - you didn't do anything wrong but get blamed/accused anyway and face the irreparable consequences. Trust is a most important foundation in a marriage.

Good luck.

[–] • 1 pt

Yeah I can talk to my wife about stuff to a degree. We're definitely on the same page with everything but she gets overwhelmed and "doesn't like thinking about" all the dark messed up stuff in the world all the time. It just sort of freaks her out, understandably. But yeah everything you're saying makes sense. I tell myself I'm in control and would never do anything to hurt my wife but like you said, it only takes one moment and then it's all screwed up. She seems halfway reasonable so I just gotta tell her how it is and that I can't be spending so much time talking to her. She's starting to confide a lot of personal stuff about her life which sucks cause I feel like she trusts me but yeah its going a little to far. Thanks again for all the advice

[–] • 2 pts

Divorce post in 3, 2... J/K I think it's possible for men and women to just be friends but it is rare.

[–] • 1 pt

maybe with your sister LoL

[–] • 1 pt

Seriously. That's really the only way this works.

[–] • 0 pt

Hahaha yeah gotta avoid that. I'm trying to think of her as a sister but it's not working out 100% so I think it's time to pump the brakes and just move on. I'll try to be civil but I gotta tell her she's gotta chill

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