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My new wife has just told me that she wants a big chest and neck tattoo for her birthday. Look , I don't mind a few tats (she has a few big ones that are non visible when clothed), but to me, a neck tat is getto as fuck and says " I'm bitch who can't do anything but be a crack whore". I make a good living in a very professional environment, where I am the boss. There is no fucking way I am taking a neck and chest tatted woman to a company function where a deep into the 6 figure salary based upon perception is on the line. Advice?

My new wife has just told me that she wants a big chest and neck tattoo for her birthday.

Look , I don't mind a few tats (she has a few big ones that are non visible when clothed), but to me, a neck tat is getto as fuck and says " I'm bitch who can't do anything but be a crack whore". I make a good living in a very professional environment, where I am the boss. There is no fucking way I am taking a neck and chest tatted woman to a company function where a deep into the 6 figure salary based upon perception is on the line.

Advice?

Suck it up, no one thinks neck tattos are ugly but you
Deal with it, even if it means you won't be having sex becuase you aren't turned on anymore
Divorce her now
Hire a spouse for company functions.
Fuck you

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[–] • 2 pts

You’re fucked no matter what you do prepare for the shitstorm that is now your life

[–] • 1 pt

Yep, agree.

Yes - I'm not happy and I will find someone else No - she is not happy and will find someone else.

[–] • 1 pt

I don't believe that. I think you can tell her no and still keep her. If she actually leaves because putting ugly scribbles on her neck is that important then she's a retard.

Just tell her it's a firm no because of what you told us. Then tell her you get that it's a sacrifice on her part and you appreciate it and/or will pay her back for the indignity in some other way... but the answer is still a hard no and you need her to make the sacrifice for you.

[–] • 1 pt

I like your response. Thank you.