My partner and I are the same 16-17 years apart. We met when she was 19 I was 36, we were probably very similarly high SMV, and still are.
Still together many years later with kids. She knows all my opinions on jews, degenerates and “progressive politics”. She was centrist, now she is conservative and similar, although not as quite far right as I am.
They are out there, you just need to keep looking in the right places until you find them. It’s rare they come looking.
I can suggest doing university courses as a mature age student to be around younger, sociable, fun, healthier, not unintelligent women.
Edit: also get in the best shape of your life. It makes things become easy mode. It may sound shallow but if you are a complete package, amused/humerous, good conversationalist/small talk, you have a mission/pursuit you are focussed on apart from women (financial stability/living off grid/entrepreneur/higher education with a goal in mind etc.) and you are the best looking you can be, it is much easier to attract a larger pool of women. You don’t have to be interested in all of them, but more fish swimming near your hook, equals higher chances of landing the right one. And funny thing: the more women are interested in you, the more other women will be too. They can’t stand being outcompeted for an high value man if they are single and are considering you.
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