I've hated myself for actions that I did, doesn't make one weak.
I bought gifts for the mother of my children after she has hurt the children, and I loath doing so. BUT its important for my children to still try and have that relationship with their mother, which includes given her gifts.
I hate myself for this, because I know that my childrens mother isn't good to them.
It sounds like you did things you saw a right, even though you didn't want to. The original post sounded more like the opposite: the poster was worried he was giving up/giving in and trying to justify it.
So, my original comment means "If you hate yourself for not doing what you know you should, or hate yourself for doing something you know you shouldn't, then you are a weak faggot." I know all men must make tough choices, and dealing with the repercussions of past errors is always painful, but that is something different.
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