Evicting her/him/zer/zim/they will depend upon state laws if you live in the USA. Most states recognize cohabitation for 7 years as a "Common-Law Marriage", even if you never "presented yourself as married". Production of children is usually proof of consensual cohabitation. If that is the case in your situation, you possibly could go to local family court and request a legal separation with child custody.
Common-Law marriages recognized in Community Property States means that one half of all assets could be adjudged hers and custody of children would be shared. Proving an "unit mother" is difficult unless you have clear proof of outrageous, deranged, unlawful or other behavior which endangers the welfare of the children. Legal measures will require lots of time and money to pay (((lawyers))) unless you go to court Pro Se (on your own behalf). That's a problem if her/him/zer/zim/they has a (((lawyer))).
Good luck and Chose Wisely next time.
The only good thing about my state is that it doesn't recognize any form of common law marriage.
She has an indicated letter from CPS for abuse.
She will get a (((lawyer))) because she make very little income on her own, and a lot of her income I think she is not reporting.
FWIW , the relationship was good for over 8 years, and then in the past 1.5 to 2 years, its fallen apart. Its to the point where I think something medically happened (stroke, mental breakdown, etc) but I wasn't able to get her to go see a doctor or therapist.
I told her mother , and then her mother was able to make things happen while she ignores what I say.
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