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I'm beyond ready to kick out my former SO, the mother of my three children. Anyone have any experience with this?

FWIW, we're not married, we never presented ourselves as married, and we have never comingled assets. We have three kids together.

I'm not certain how to go about this without loosing access to my children, and I want to ensure they're with me as she is damn near unfit mother at this point.

I'm beyond ready to kick out my former SO, the mother of my three children. Anyone have any experience with this? FWIW, we're not married, we never presented ourselves as married, and we have never comingled assets. We have three kids together. I'm not certain how to go about this without loosing access to my children, and I want to ensure they're with me as she is damn near unfit mother at this point.

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working on that, I have a log (as much as thats worth) I have limited video, but that is when she treats me like she treats the kids.

and I do know she did get a cps indicated letter

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Someone else said lawyer, unfortunately I'd have to agree. They'd know better what you need to secure to sway a judge to leave them with you. Also, they'd know whether or not it matters about 'declared' marriage in your particular state, lengthy cohabitation might be enough for this to be divorce-ish.

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I've spoken to two lawyers, the state/lawyers can't/won't do anything until we're not living in the same place. 100% good advice thought.