Notice how she conflates reason with desire. They aren't the same. Of course you're not being reasonable, any more than she is. No, I'm not being reasonable, I simply don't want to go. I'm fine with you going.
My wife understands I don't want to be with a group of women so she assumes I don't want to go from the start. However, if she wants me to, she'll say, I know you don't want to go, but.... and she'll explain why she wants me to go. At that point, I come up with an "out" so she can explain why I can't come to her friends. Unfortunately, Covid is over, so I can't just let that fly out anymore, I have to actually think of something plausible.
lol, nice. She thinks I'm being unreasonable but she also did not put up much of an argument. I said no, she said alright then.
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