I left reddit when some weird pussyass lady said that women needed protecting online. Uhm. I've been playing with 'the boys' since the 90s. I don't need white knights, I don't need rules protecting my feelings. I came across old voat. I made some amazing friends on their chat before SBBH pretty much made it miserable. It's been years and years and I still keep in touch with a few. When old voat started getting weird, I came across poal probably from a recommendation. The new voat was run by the same people who harassed the shit out of me and my friends so I wasn't about to head there. Poal has worked for me to get info and have the occasional enlightening discussion. Conspiracies.win is my other go to but they are a bit more niche and strange and definitely have more glowies.