I have done this. I was with her for 7 years. No kids. Long story short, don't do it. If you truly believe your faith, and they theirs, there will ALWAYS be division. If you think you can overcome it, think again. It's hard. In the end, for a plethora of reasons, I broke up with her.
7 years though. That's sad
I was physically ill for 4 months after I broke up with her. It was...not worth it. Add that to all the lost time, prob the best times in my life, wasted. I have a diametrically opposed dating strategy now. It made me a better person, made me realize how I was messing up and what I need to change, so I'm thankful for that. I will be the exemplary husband to my wife, whoever that ends up being.
Cheers mate
Stephen Wood's "ABC's for finding a good wife". He's also written one for women.
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