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Hey, Everyone

I'm not with my wife anymore, but I kind of like my wedding ring. It's not a traditional design for a wedding ring, so it could pass, I guess, as just a random ring. I guess it might be described as a Gaelic design. Would it be OK to wear it on my right hand?

Hey, Everyone I'm not with my wife anymore, but I kind of like my wedding ring. It's not a traditional design for a wedding ring, so it could pass, I guess, as just a random ring. I guess it might be described as a Gaelic design. Would it be OK to wear it on my right hand?

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You guys don’t know what happened in his case.

Perhaps she cheated.

Perhaps he cheated.

Perhaps she doesn’t want to get back with him.

Any one of those is grounds for divorce.

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You guys don’t know what happened in his case.

If he is posting here I doubt it is the one thing I would consider irreconcilable. All can and should be forgiven.

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First off, “if he is posting here I doubt”…. So, you made an assumption, then started doling out life advice based on that very flimsy, snap assumption.

Also, you were answering a question he didn’t ask. He didn’t ask if he should try to save his marriage, now did he? He asked about wearing the ring.

And the one thing you consider to be irreconcilable? Who are you to be the arbiter of such things in the first place?

As for me, I’m going by the Bible. Adultery is grounds for divorce according to God. I happen to put more stock in his opinion of the matter than I do in yours.

You can forgive someone and still not be married to them anymore, by the way. As is the case for many victims of marital infidelity.

Lastly, the OP has stated elsewhere in the comments that his wife has chosen to leave. So guilt-tripping him for something that he didn’t even choose is not only illogical, it’s unethical.

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I am responding on mobile. Copy pasting all relevant points takes more time than my life allows.

My point of reference is as a leaver who impregnated my mistress and then was still able to reconcile with my wife of now 15 years.

I am not an expert in OPs life, but I am more of an expert in the bible than you. Jesus never commanded divorce. He limited what was acceptable grounds, but adultery does not require divorce. Also, by your logic, since the only biblical grounds for divorce is adultery, then if OP was physically torturing his wife and children then she had no right to leave since he was sexually faithful to her.

Personally, I was trying to be encouraging to a stranger on the internet, who actually had nothing to say to me. You are white knighting and being a piece of shit. Thanks.

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Comment arbiter alert. Fuck off kike.