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In my a late 20s and I'm in a rut. I have a steady job but it pays average. I have poor communication skills and my dating life is non existent as a result despite keeping myself in good shape via the gym.

I often mentally check out of this life, all the hope, vigour and aspirations from my teens has evaporated and I'm indifferent about the present and the future.

I thought my life would have clicked into place by now but I've hit a brick wall. Hoping the next decade can see some changes.

In my a late 20s and I'm in a rut. I have a steady job but it pays average. I have poor communication skills and my dating life is non existent as a result despite keeping myself in good shape via the gym. I often mentally check out of this life, all the hope, vigour and aspirations from my teens has evaporated and I'm indifferent about the present and the future. I thought my life would have clicked into place by now but I've hit a brick wall. Hoping the next decade can see some changes.

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Sounds like you're ready for the next step.

You need to put more effort into finding a partner than finding your next job. At a certain age your options become limited. You need to find new ways to socialize, so you can practice your communication skills. Think sports club, social hobby, maybe try inviting people to do fun things.

Life doesn't always click, there is always struggle. Once you learn to forge ahead despite hardship things will pick up for you.