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In my a late 20s and I'm in a rut. I have a steady job but it pays average. I have poor communication skills and my dating life is non existent as a result despite keeping myself in good shape via the gym.

I often mentally check out of this life, all the hope, vigour and aspirations from my teens has evaporated and I'm indifferent about the present and the future.

I thought my life would have clicked into place by now but I've hit a brick wall. Hoping the next decade can see some changes.

In my a late 20s and I'm in a rut. I have a steady job but it pays average. I have poor communication skills and my dating life is non existent as a result despite keeping myself in good shape via the gym. I often mentally check out of this life, all the hope, vigour and aspirations from my teens has evaporated and I'm indifferent about the present and the future. I thought my life would have clicked into place by now but I've hit a brick wall. Hoping the next decade can see some changes.

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I was suicidal (legitimately and for good cause) from 31-33.

I can tell you that for me it did. I’m still not out but I found God, gave my life to Him, and things clicked into place after that.

I’m 38 now and the more that I continue that journey the more peace I have. The more I ponder and pray daily the more I realize I was serving Satan and was pursuing Satan’s temptations.

Life does get better. If you make it better. God helps those who help themselves. You just need to have faith in the bigger picture.

Set goals. Attack them tenaciously and with faith. Take care of your health. Be a better man for the sake of being a better more Godly man.

You’ve got this. Don’t give up.