you are not wrong. she greeted me warmly with a cheery and informal "hi" and I almost did today after I asked her if she had any weekend plans. but she said yes and said she was going to her friends place on the lake. she didnt ask if I had plans so I kinda took it as disinterested but I should have at least gone all out and faced potential rejection so I could move on. I even went back again and bought a paintbrush i didn't need but she was dealing with a contractor ordering something. Shes pretty enough I get butterflies, tongue tied and can't think straight. I have no problem asking a girl out but with coworkers around and a line up behind me I don't do public displays of affection well.
Don't ask a girl if she has plans.
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