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Fellow White People Is my gf cheating on me or just weird?

We've been dating for around a year and a half. She comes from a very very religious background, and from what i can tell, absolutely no one in her family follows the no sex before marriage rule. Heck, not even my gf herself is a virgin, since she had sex already prior. So not entirely too sure why waiting till marriage is so important now. I always thought that was more a teenage rule or something, seems weird to enforce chastity when one isn't chaste ....

We've been dating for around a year and a half. She comes from a very very religious background, and from what i can tell, absolutely no one in her family follows the no sex before marriage rule. Heck, not even my gf herself is a virgin, since she had sex already prior. So not entirely too sure why waiting till marriage is so important now. I always thought that was more a teenage rule or something, seems weird to enforce chastity when one isn't chaste ....

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We’ve got unexplained infertility and have so far spent $20k on fertility treatments, and another $30k coming up in July for IVF. Way to be a dick.

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Well then you don't actually fall into the category I was explaining.

I get these exact "but muh me" posts every time I mention childless marriages lead to divorces and 2 years is about the turning point. And it's a bastardization to the whole point of marriage. I have to assume they're lieing and it's glowie forum handlers popping out like clockwork.

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No, we are pretty open about it. Oddly enough, most of my teammates I was with in the military have mostly all had fertility issues. The doc at the VA just shrugged when I brought up that it was rather strange. My point was that not everyone who doesn’t have kids does so out of choice. But yes, it’s been difficult on our marriage.