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Fellow White People Is my gf cheating on me or just weird?

We've been dating for around a year and a half. She comes from a very very religious background, and from what i can tell, absolutely no one in her family follows the no sex before marriage rule. Heck, not even my gf herself is a virgin, since she had sex already prior. So not entirely too sure why waiting till marriage is so important now. I always thought that was more a teenage rule or something, seems weird to enforce chastity when one isn't chaste ....

We've been dating for around a year and a half. She comes from a very very religious background, and from what i can tell, absolutely no one in her family follows the no sex before marriage rule. Heck, not even my gf herself is a virgin, since she had sex already prior. So not entirely too sure why waiting till marriage is so important now. I always thought that was more a teenage rule or something, seems weird to enforce chastity when one isn't chaste ....

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I don't understand the question, are you engaged to be married, "going steady" ...or are you just "dating?" If you are just dating, then how can she be "cheating" on you? She could be dating others, there would be no rule against that, unless you have both agreed to it. What is the nature of the communication, trust, and relationship between you and this person? If you think she is lying to you about something, then your relationship is in jeopardy. If you think she is using the prospect of sex as leverage to get you to ask her to marry you, that is another issue. Best wishes to you, be smart and follow your heart but also use your best intuition.