I am a good man with a good wife and 2 adult children. The problem is that society has created unrealistic expectations of life in the youth and made exiting a marriage too easy. My son is concerned about getting married because the only one making a lifetime financial decision would be him. The legal system is horribly biased towards women. My daughter wants to be a traditional wife, but she has bought into the bullshit that she should be able to "have it all".