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I've searched far and wide

I've searched far and wide

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[–] • 6 pts

Until the modern era, most marriages were based on reason, not feelings

You could specifically look for an ukrainian for instance, christian, from a rather poor background, willing to be the mother of your kids, with divorce not being an option, by legal contract between you both, so you can't end up divorce raped while she can't end up dumped like a bitch

I mean you could make it clear from the get go, it's to make a family, descendants. If there isn't much love and feelings in the beginning it can come later on

And you of course on your side you are willing to provide pretty much everything material to raise the kids etc, while she focuses on being a housewife. And by being your wife she can have US citizenship or whatever is your country, and escape her social condition, make a quantum leap forward for her and her family

I know it doesn't sound very romantic, but again romantism is a modern invention. Take monarchies and the medieval era... The vast majority of marriages were arranged and often had little to do with love and feelings. It was often for practical reasons, based on reason rather than love and feelings, those were a bonus

[–] • 3 pts

This is basically what I finally realized. After “falling in love” over and over with mental cases, I met a beautiful, intelligent, healthy person that I admired. I wasn’t head over heels. She’s not a dime. But she’s substantial and kind. Made a conscious decision to actively love her and married her up. I can’t stand being away from her and my life and my character are both 80% better. Oh, and she’s funny. Clutch.

[–] • 2 pts

with divorce not being an option, by legal contract between you both, so you can't end up divorce raped

No legal contract can prevent divorce rape. Pre-nups are a fantasy. They can't protect your children, and if you have children they can't protect the first million or so of your assets. The divorce rape judge will throw out any or all of your pre-nup to provide for "the children" (your ex and her new boyfriend).

Only if you are a mega millionaire can a pre-nup protect you, and then it can only protect (most of) your assets. No pre-nup can protect your children.

[–] • 2 pts

Put everything you own under your mother's name

[–] • 2 pts

A proper option though be mindful of the sus and the ability to persuade one you have been working a deal with too pupil a wool over your eyes and corrupting your mind for a Jewish cause

[–] • 1 pt

Good info. Thanks.

I would like to import a Lithuanian woman though.

[–] • 2 pts

Yeah I took ukrainian as an example but it could be lithuanian, it's still the same overall idea; someone who's in for a marriage of reason, someone with traditional and religious values, who can understand the whole concept, no need to be hypocrite about it, it's to build a family it's not about lust

[–] • 1 pt

This used to be applied to being the sex you were born as, a lifelong connection. Now people try to get divorced from their sex.

[–] • 4 pts (edited )

No, good women are still out there.

[–] • 2 pts

but theyre looking for good men

[–] • 0 pt

So become a good man.

[–] • 0 pt

I already have a good girl. I'm not OP tho. hes probably a pussy with no personally who wants to score above his league.

[–] • 0 pt

I am a good man with a good wife and 2 adult children. The problem is that society has created unrealistic expectations of life in the youth and made exiting a marriage too easy. My son is concerned about getting married because the only one making a lifetime financial decision would be him. The legal system is horribly biased towards women. My daughter wants to be a traditional wife, but she has bought into the bullshit that she should be able to "have it all".

[–] • 1 pt

Yes there is maybe not for niggers and jews but we aryans maintain quietly. Plenty teacher our k9ds never marry and produce kids with someone darker then daddy. My 9 year old knows white pride and o/. He knows in public we appear one way and when it's time we will rise for the Aryan race

[–] • 2 pts

Yep, we are in a mess. Our people have gone after strange flesh and forsaken the importance of DNA and family in scripture. It is partly because we, as a people, don''t know we are actually true Israel. We have been taught that God's Law is done away. God has an interesting way of punishment. Unfortunately the national nature of our sin effects all of us.

[–] • 2 pts (edited )

Found my soul mate at mom's hanging with my cousin. They leaved next door and gffslike the " omg guys so gff ok" so every time I saw her I have her son ride on go karts motorcycles all kinds of fun. After a year at a party I was joking around I charged 150.00 hour and she asked what she got in return and I said I luck had to toe and use every second making love to you and 13 years later only data we are apart is if I traveled for work or she did

Point is love is found blindly or by a Aryan woman make deal learn to love over time. I ask though where are you looking? Are you city or country?

[–] • 2 pts (edited )

I’m done with them. I’m not some MGTOW guy, but after having a child in February of last year with a woman I had been with for six years, with whom I made lifelong plans with and were happy about our future, decided that she would rather be able to go to concerts with her friends and drink wine at night and not have to be an adult.

Guess who’s the one that had to move out of the house that they pay 100% of the bills for? Hint, it wasn’t her. Guess who gets custody of the baby by default?

now I’m stuck hiring lawyers, trying to fight things in court and get custody and everything else. The vast majority of today’s women are feeble minded, products of Instagram and their television, and have no perspective on what it means to be a human being, let alone a man or a woman.

The saddest part is the child. Now he’s going to be growing up in a broken home. I’m willing to put every resource I have into getting a lawyer who’s going to help me fix this. I did nothing to this girl except for love and support her. I personally think postpartum depression had a lot to do with it

[–] • 1 pt

Your story is not uncommon. I've witnessed dozens of happy couples in long term relationships. Everything was fine until a baby came along. Then the women all go bat shit crazy and do exactly as you stated.

[–] • 1 pt

This is why you should always get married first. At least maybe they would’ve considered giving you partial custody of your kid. I’ve seen this happen a lot. People date for years thinking the marriage is just a piece of paper. Then when the lady goes crazy from PPD or stress or just realizes having a baby has more responsibility, and they can’t party all the time, ect, if they’re not married they’re way more likely to bail. Men too. I see women do this more than men, maybe if I had more lady friends I’d see it’s even but I think it’s worse with women. Every time I see my husband’s friends convinced they will be fine without marriage I warn them. They didn’t listen and every single one of them struggle seeing their kids. Didn’t matter how long they were together. Marriage doesn’t guarantee you’ll avoid this outcome but it seems to make it less likely. Among married people with kids I know it usually only ends in divorce in extreme circumstances. And the courts work with the dad at least a little even though they favor the mom. When you don’t get married first they don’t care about the dad at all.

[–] • 2 pts

It is not. Keep searching. They are out there.

[–] • 1 pt

Thought you were married

[–] • 1 pt

Find country girls who grew up doing chores and did not have internet access.

[–] • 1 pt (edited )

Yes. Women have always been essentially hookers and they are no longer Geo restricted to their community. They are just smart enough to open an IG account and post thirst trap pics or fuck a photographer into doing it for her. Then she will just bounce from John to John before she hits the wall. This is peak female liberation

[–] • 1 pt

I feel for you brother. You can still find them here and there, but the older you get the more rare they become. If you haven't already found a decent mate by the time you hit 25 you find that the good ones are already taken. You do stumble upon them though. Move to the country. Get out of cities. You'll find more gems this way.

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