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So we took on a new girl at work. All guys, we're kinda a rough crowd. She's doing great, hard working, tomboy, horse girl. We're friendly, but we don't try to treat her any different.

One of the guys got her in. He wants to get with her. She's totally friend zoned him, don't know what he was thinking. They're mid 20s, I'm earlyish 30s. Don't want any drama, used to being alone, but feel like she's got a thing for me.

Know it wouldn't be a good idea to pursue, but... You know. Throw me feedback bros/gals

So we took on a new girl at work. All guys, we're kinda a rough crowd. She's doing great, hard working, tomboy, horse girl. We're friendly, but we don't try to treat her any different. One of the guys got her in. He wants to get with her. She's totally friend zoned him, don't know what he was thinking. They're mid 20s, I'm earlyish 30s. Don't want any drama, used to being alone, but feel like she's got a thing for me. Know it wouldn't be a good idea to pursue, but... You know. Throw me feedback bros/gals

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[–] 3 pts

If she's too stupid to realize your coworker got her the job and still friend zoned him then she's going to make you regret trying.

If she knows what she's doing then she's manipulative as hell and is basically going to create drama with the whole office and a bunch of you guys are going to be finding new jobs while she gets a nice company settlement and a title bump.

The only girl/woman you should ever invest in is one who chases you because it means she has actual desire and not just bored or in need of a quick promotion.

To be quite frank, if you're over 30 there's no excuse for being as clueless as you seem to be. But if it needs to be spelled out, keep your dick in your pants or start looking for a new job.

[–] 0 pt

I'm pretty, not trying. That makes me forbidden fruit