Picture a slave looking for the “right plantation,” one with fewer whippings, a kinder master, a new tin roof on the slave shed, and maybe a patch of shade at one corner of the cotton field, all the while never considering the possibility that the institution of slavery sucks. Imagine this slave turning down his emancipation, instead preferring to continue his search for the ideal plantation. That is the stupidity of the divorced man looking for the “right woman.”
While i see your point and the illustration is good, but how do you account for the morality of sex outside of consecration then? Further, how would you rear children?
I don't think that after the mess that is divorce many people who aren't purposely avoiding seeing reality will want to have a child, though, surrogacy is a great option, no one can take your son then..
For morality, that's a very subjective thing. If you are honest about a strict morality than there are maybe 4 women in the entirety of the west that are of marriage potential anyways. So, essentially, what I'm saying is that you can't worry about morality of sex outside of marriage, yet also be willing to marry a western women with their frighteningly high body-counts.
However, to answer the spirit of your question... If i was a divorced man, who luckily noticed that she was trash before i had kids, and yet still wanted kids. I'd probably move some place like the Philippines (and stay there) where you have at least a snowballs chance in hell of finding a woman with a single digit body count, and can still be a parent to your kids without some Karen getting you arrested for making him do chores.
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