Only subhumans do shitty things to people they call friends. There are no accidents in this regard.
In my early 20s I met a friends girlfriend and she said he and her were breaking up and invited me over. He didn't know, I believed her and yeah, I ended up sleeping with her. He never talked to me again and I knew she had lied so I cut her off too. The things we do when in university. I regret it but I was drunk and she was cute.
In retrospect, I'm sure many people have done much worse. I learned never to trust anyone after that debacle.
She used you to hurt him.
Yep.. and I was young, drunk and stupid. We weren't best friends or anything but the guy introduced me to her and they were arguing he left. She definitely tricked me. I learned an important life lesson that day. Never betray a friend regardless of how close you are.
It solidified my morality to this day.
Waited for him to hit rock bottom before intervening and ended up watching him drink himself to death.
Sorry mate.
Shit dude, that is rough
I'll just say that I have a few regrets.
Had a threesome with his girlfriend and his sister.
I don't really recall doing super shitty shit to somebody. But I did have a friend's ex-wife who was his wife at the time double cross me with a guy who was my friend and a girl who was her best friend. I was sort of seeing her best friend and I got invited over to the guy's house who I was friends with. The wife encouraged the best friend to hook up with the guy. I don't know what she told the best friend about me being there but maybe that "oh he's just a friend and don't worry about it" but the best friend knew that I liked her I thought. When I got there the best friend and the guy were all googly googly each other and I'm sitting there like why am I here, why are they doing this to me, this is so cruel. Literally a week ago me and the best friend were out having drinks on a date together. And the wife when I looked at what was going on and I looked back at the wife was looking at me and laughing, laughing into my heart and soul. She was a cruel bitch cunt but I played the higher ground. When her husband called me and said he had a couple of drinks and was going to stay home and ask me if I could drive her home I said okay sure. I drove her home and on the ride she was asking me if I was mad at her and everything was okay. I stoically said "yes you're fine" and when I got to their house I said goodbye and never spoke to them ever again. I did see them 10 years later at a friend's funeral and she confronted me, tried to get mad. And I just exploded because I figured it doesn't matter but this will be fun and I told her how much of a piece of shit she was for doing that. No friend would ever do that to a friend so obviously you're my enemy and it doesn't matter but I think you're trash. She didn't know what to do with that, it was lovely.
I was an awkward child and never had anyone take an interest in me until later in life. Had a "I want to be more than friends" request and I had no idea how to react and drove the person away. I was told through mutual friends that there was a lot of hurt there, and I still feel bad about that today.
Tried to apologize later but the damage was done.
None of your fucking business
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