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My mother died Thursday morning. She had dementia , not real bad , beginning stages. She died from congestive heart failure.

I haven't shed a single tear , or even felt any real sadness. We were not really close , but I did love her. Wtf is wrong with me ? I know I'm supposed to feel sad , but I don't .

My mother died Thursday morning. She had dementia , not real bad , beginning stages. She died from congestive heart failure. I haven't shed a single tear , or even felt any real sadness. We were not really close , but I did love her. Wtf is wrong with me ? I know I'm supposed to feel sad , but I don't .

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[–] 12 pts

People who aren't close to someone that died generally cry right away and then get over it in a day or two.

People who are close to someone that died often aren't sad at all, but then it hits them weeks later and they are fucked up for a long time.

Or you could have been mentally prepared from the dementia.

[–] 0 pt

That's what I was thinking most people feel relief when a loved one with dementia dies. They basically died when they can't remember you anymore.