It's funny because I've had the same thing happen to me before, except replace "girl" with "man", and he was a friend of mine rather than being my friends' husband. Except, in this particular situation, he actually laughed his arse off when I said it. To be fair, he makes self-depreciating comments about how his eyes are squinty and he can't see properly as a result, and other similar Asian stereotype things. Shit's hilarious.