I have been told that everyone's trauma is their own, and it is all legitimate.
And I actually believe that.
I know a bunch of people here don't believe that. That if Pappy didn't beat the Sin out of you with a switch every Sunday, you didn't actually have trauma.
But I would say the two things that fucked me up were my parents getting divorced, and being the only white kid in my class from Kindergarten through 6th grade.
Learning that your parents vehemently hate each other is a hard thing for a child to learn, especially because I was only six at the time.
A lot of children assume that their parents get divorced because of them. Because the parents don't love you enough.
This is absolutely correct. If your parents actually loved you more than anything in the world, they would stick through their unhappy marriage and raise you together, until you were a proper adult. Then they can get divorced.
Being the only white kid in school...
I don't hate black people. I really don't.
But being around high concentrations of them during your formative years, when you are supposed to be learning, and socializing, and becoming a real human.
It isn't healthy for the young white mind.
I hate niggers . Had to fight them almost every school day from 3rd -10th grade. Savage fucking animals the lot of them .
My mother let me hitchhike to school when I was 10 , I was sexually abused by an older kid at age 9 , was told , " it didn't happen " , jumped by niggers , beaten with belt buckles , almost lost one eye , sent to that school anyway , bunch of other fucked up emotional abuse and neglect.
I have forgiven my mother , but the damage done was done. I have done ok for the most part all things considered , but sometimes I wonder what my life would have been like if I didn't go through all this shit
Only had one black kid in my school, still had to fight him.
No one’s saying peoples trauma isn’t legitimate. They are just saying that the word trauma is being confused with discomfort or hardship, when it only really applies to lasting damage
Yeah. I've got lasting damage.
Well, you’ve got three options. Try to suppress and ignore it, use the hurt and anger to fuel positive change and growth, or let it destroy you
Lower middle of 8. Grew up poor. Hand me down clothes. Sometime hungry. That wasn't trauma, that was life. People today legitimately believe being called him/her is trauma. Please
Lasting damage is PTSD. Trauma happens lots. Not all of it causes PTSD.
Not true. PTSD is a specific disorder where people are having trouble coping with their trauma and it manifests itself as paranoia, insomnia, alcoholism, etc. Trauma is the cause of PTSD.
I don't hate black people. I really don't.
That's what a cuck would say.
I went to school in a majority black school too and let me tell you, any white boy who still speaks that soft years afterwards was definitely their little bitch while in there. I hated niggers early on and they damn well knew it.
Maybe not. Being indifferent is not hatred. It's difficult to waste the positive energy of hate on a group of non-sentient beings. kikes on the other hand...
Niggers aren't people
Anything that can talk is a human.
And yes, that does include parrots.
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