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No need to share details , but how have you coped , moved on , or are you still struggling

Sometimes I think there is no getting over some stuff , the best you can hope for is to not let the past rob you of the present , but sometimes I think we are all prisoners of our past

Any thoughts ?

No need to share details , but how have you coped , moved on , or are you still struggling Sometimes I think there is no getting over some stuff , the best you can hope for is to not let the past rob you of the present , but sometimes I think we are all prisoners of our past Any thoughts ?

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Establishing a personal locus of control is incredibly helpful in this area, as is honesty and boundaries. My parents are evil. I cut off all contact with them years ago as they refused to respect any boundaries. My life improved dramatically as a result of choosing to determine what I would do and whom will be a part of my life.

[–] • 2 pts

I really struggle with being honest about anything irl , but with u faggots I can be

[–] • 0 pt

Who in your life benefits from you being dishonest? If you're struggling, someone benefits and it's unlikely that they're a positive influence on your life.

[–] • 0 pt

I always hold back , never completely honest with anyone irl , about what I think , how I feel , what I'm struggling with , or even that I am struggling with anything.

Anything you say can and will be used against you