Alright, so I go back in soon seeing if they have new tarantulas
A couple of important things to know -
A No does not mean a No. it means a No right now.
A woman or anyone is likely to be caught off guard. She may need an hour to come to her senses. Do not give up immediately for these two reasons. Keep going and ‘relationshiping her up.
Also a No is not to who you are, it’s to who you are being. Do not take it personally. She does not know you, it’s impossible to ‘reject’ you on who you are. And for that see the two previous No’s I mentioned.
Keep in mind she wants a man. You are a man. There is no reason for her to not think of you as anything than what she wants. Go in with this confidence.
And ‘lastly’ you do not get to choose why a woman will or will not like you. If she likes you you go with it. She may like you for reasons you do not comprehend. She may like you for the very reasons you think she shouldn’t. If she likes you you go with it.
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