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I have two options and was wondering which is best. She lives in the ephemeral dumpster crapfest that is NYC. Her family is hpyer controlling and they got to go, since they've been pissing me off lately. Not that they cant be nice, but they're the type of family that complains they always have drama when they're the ones creating the drama. Originally my plan was to move her very far away suddenly, but I'm also thinking a slow boil approach would work where i slowly move her away farther and farther

I have two options and was wondering which is best. She lives in the ephemeral dumpster crapfest that is NYC. Her family is hpyer controlling and they got to go, since they've been pissing me off lately. Not that they cant be nice, but they're the type of family that complains they always have drama when they're the ones creating the drama. Originally my plan was to move her very far away suddenly, but I'm also thinking a slow boil approach would work where i slowly move her away farther and farther

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The drama is not going to end because you move away; It will change. The complaints will shift to 'we never see you anymore' and 'you chose him over us' and crap like that.

If you think about it, your 3rd option is to call off the wedding before it gets worse. Imagine the drama if you had kids and they never saw them.

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Fair point, they've actually used all those lines before, and it's making her very upset because she just wants her family to stop. I dont think she realizes narcs and abusers very rarely ever stop their ways and usually double down on the abuse before "leaving you alone"