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I have two options and was wondering which is best. She lives in the ephemeral dumpster crapfest that is NYC. Her family is hpyer controlling and they got to go, since they've been pissing me off lately. Not that they cant be nice, but they're the type of family that complains they always have drama when they're the ones creating the drama. Originally my plan was to move her very far away suddenly, but I'm also thinking a slow boil approach would work where i slowly move her away farther and farther

I have two options and was wondering which is best. She lives in the ephemeral dumpster crapfest that is NYC. Her family is hpyer controlling and they got to go, since they've been pissing me off lately. Not that they cant be nice, but they're the type of family that complains they always have drama when they're the ones creating the drama. Originally my plan was to move her very far away suddenly, but I'm also thinking a slow boil approach would work where i slowly move her away farther and farther

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[–] [deleted] • 1 pt

She said she's ok with moving wherever as long as she's with me, so i thought that was a good answer. she's concerned because her parents will guilt trip and shame her to no end. Most of her life has been following what her mom says, and she's getting very tired of it

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This seems like a relationship among very young people. Be very careful about decisions that will affect the next 50 years of your lives.

[–] [deleted] • 0 pt

It's weird, we're both in our 30s, except she only "recently" moved out of her parents house. However, she ended up living in one of their rentals instead, so she went from living with her parents to ... living with her parents under a different contract model. The parents should have known better than to do something like this, but they refused to let go of their daughter and here we are

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First, you have to accept your fiancé's role in her plight. Unless she's mentally incompetent she's fully capable of taking control of her own life and chooses not to. If she's not mentally competent then you should be evaluating your options.