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Love her to bits and want to spend the rest of my life with her. I've wanted to do this for a long time already but haven't been able to figure out how.

We'll soon celebrate having been together for five years and that would seem like a good moment to pop the question. I know she'll say yes since we've discussed getting married.

She's down to earth and not high maintenance or anything but I know she'd want the proposal to be something a bit special.

I do know that she dislikes the idea of public proposals. So no hockey games etc.

Any suggestions? Thanks & merry Christmas to all

Love her to bits and want to spend the rest of my life with her. I've wanted to do this for a long time already but haven't been able to figure out how. We'll soon celebrate having been together for five years and that would seem like a good moment to pop the question. I know she'll say yes since we've discussed getting married. She's down to earth and not high maintenance or anything but I know she'd want the proposal to be something a bit special. I do know that she dislikes the idea of public proposals. So no hockey games etc. Any suggestions? Thanks & merry Christmas to all

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[–] • 2 pts (edited )

Give yourself options, so that you can do it organically when the time is right.

Start by making the date at the courthouse. 6 months to a year out. Bring 4 witnesses. Two men, two women. Don't tell them until after you've popped the question, of course. They'll ruin it.

Plan a series of dates/outings. Stuff that gets your heart pumping.

But, also, something that involves delicious food.

When she's well fed, then goes out and has had an exhilarating moment... that moment she is coming off that feeling, pop the question and present a ring. I recommend moissanite. Literally no one can tell whether or not it's a diamond.

It doesn't have to be more complicated than, "I love you, I want to spend the rest of my life with you. Will you marry me?"

After you've popped the question, give her an orgasm or two, then a nice dessert and a long sleep.

Wake up... another orgasm or two... and you're set.

If she needs a big wedding, do it after the courthouse ceremony and don't tell anyone about the first marriage. Swear the witnesses to secrecy.

However, I suggest you invest in the marriage rather than the wedding.

[–] • 3 pts

I try to make a difference daily. Not hard when you're really into someone. No big wedding, no church. That's also one reason to make the proposal a bit more memorable.

Thanks

[–] [deleted] • 0 pt

moissanite

Do not get a "fake" gem without explicitly running it past the woman first! Some are perfectly fine with lab creations; others have swallowed the mined diamond marketing.

[–] • 0 pt

Nobody can tell. Just don't get one that looks like it's supposed to be worth 100k.

You can always upgrade the ring down the road.

[–] [deleted] • 0 pt

Nobody can tell.

A jeweler can tell. Maybe not all of them, but definitely the one my ex went to. Let's just say that experience didn't endear her to me. Current wife loves how big and beautiful hers is.

(Also with the real thing priced 20-50x higher for perfect/flawless/etc. anyone with a general sense of my income could determine that I didn't spend 25k on the rock)