Well I mean just matter of fact. My father is definitely the only person who even comes close. I don't think anyone has had as much of a direct negative impact on my life. I don't have a single positive "father-son" memory from my childhood. In some ways it has served me later in life to identify people who are a net-positive or net-negative in my life.... And I have less than zero patience now for anyone who is a net-negative. Fucking cut that shit out yesterday like the tumor they are and move on with my life.