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I’m watching this guy go down. It fucking sucks. First wife was abusive and violent enough that they awarded custody of the two kids (toddlers) to an actual man. So I assume she was as bad as he says. Ugh. Fuck. Long story short, he’s a very rare excellent young man who can’t get childcare because he’s broke, and can’t work without childcare. He’s gonna lose his kids, I think. He’s a very fine tradesman.

It just pisses me off that someone like him gets completely fucked by the women in his life. It’s bad. It’s a long story that involves some typical females destroying men shit and it bothers me. He may be twice the man I am, but they fucking tore him down.

Is it possible that could give up his kids for a year and get them back? Is that a thing?

Update! Hooked him up with a job and he’s borrowing one of my vehicles until his truck is fixed. Found him childcare for less than the daycare he couldn’t afford. He’s looking into welfare.

In his words, “It was a good day”.
I’ve never seen someone swing that hard in one day. It’s tenuous, but that’s a long way from fooked.

I’m watching this guy go down. It fucking sucks. First wife was abusive and violent enough that they awarded custody of the two kids (toddlers) to an actual man. So I assume she was as bad as he says. Ugh. Fuck. Long story short, he’s a very rare excellent young man who can’t get childcare because he’s broke, and can’t work without childcare. He’s gonna lose his kids, I think. He’s a very fine tradesman. It just pisses me off that someone like him gets completely fucked by the women in his life. It’s bad. It’s a long story that involves some typical females destroying men shit and it bothers me. He may be twice the man I am, but they fucking tore him down. Is it possible that could give up his kids for a year and get them back? Is that a thing? Update! Hooked him up with a job and he’s borrowing one of my vehicles until his truck is fixed. Found him childcare for less than the daycare he couldn’t afford. He’s looking into welfare. In his words, “It was a good day”. I’ve never seen someone swing that hard in one day. It’s tenuous, but that’s a long way from fooked.

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If we were talking about an evaluation of what does this guy deserves you could certainly make the case he deserves no breaks coming his way.

But here we are talking about innocent kids who got no vote in their parentage. Whether he deserves it or not aside, the best option is an avenue for him to be able to get things together and be able to have a decent life to take care of the kids. Kids are certainly best off in responsible nuclear families. But the kids are a lot better off in a dingle parent home with a parent who is trying their best with the situation they made with a reasonable avenue to a decent life than with a parent who doesn't care at all or a society that says, "Fuck 'em, sins of the father."

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He can give them up for adoption. If memory serves, something like 10-20% of couples have fertility problems. And given the extensive vetting process...they'll have their shit together and exhibit at least a modicum of wisdom in partner selection.

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Adoption is glorified human trafficking. Kids need both parents. Or at least one. Not to be sold to infertile people as a consolation prize. My adopted parents didn’t have their shit together. They had enough money and that’s all anyone cared about. My adopted mom is a kike. They were both extremely obese. The adoption agency was like, ka ching. Made at least $10,000 if not more by convincing my mom to give me up and sell me rather than offering her help. I was sold. Was taken from my mom who had blue eyes blonde hair, to be sold sold to KIKES. If you support this you support human trafficking.

Chances are if you get a baby taken by the state they were better off staying with their parents or another family member too. They could try fostering indefinitely until parents get their act together. Instead they’re sold.

No matter how you go about it there are way more couples wanting to adopt than there are babies taken from their families legitimately. The demand and profit encourage adoption rather than doing the right thing. I hope this’ll be illegal some day!

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Sad truth is kids don't get adopted.

There's a waiting line for babies and toddlers, but most kids just don't get adopted.

They're better off with a bip patent genuinely trying to get their stuff together than passed around the system.