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Sticky-level discussion imho. We need more positive parenting comments from Poal users.

Sticky-level discussion imho. We need more positive parenting comments from Poal users.

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[–] • 7 pts

Parenting is complicated in execution but simple in theory. Love your kids to death, die to your own vanity. Also you need miles of patience because these newly formed brains need a lot of time to invent new pathways in the brain to make the right decisions.

Parenting is like any good leader. You have to pull the rope to change it. Pushing it will contort the rope. Like that thot who realized she needs to stop using profanity so her kid stops. Same thing with any attribute. If you want kids dedicated to the goodness of the world, then exhibit it. Don't ever think you can push them into it.

Parenting is amazing. I want my kids to be contributing members of society so everything in me is thrilled when I see new changes. When they went from single words to full sentences. When they started riding bikes. When I could give them chores and they would just do it without any more supervision. It thrills me every time. I hate those parents that talk about how much time or money it takes to raise kids. Try sheering 20 sheep by yourself. A bakers dozen kids sounds like a great idea after that.

Society has been designed to make kids an accessory. If you treat kids like a contributing member of the family, your mindset is different. You desperately want them to be strong and independent. I love being a parent. I have awesome kids. Some fuel me, others make me laugh.

[–] • 1 pt

Very sound advice. Thank you for it. I want to want parenthood. I am hypercautious about the mother however. A lot to consider but again thank you.

[–] • 2 pts

The wife part is brutal. I couldn't imagine being single at this point. My wife has gone through health scares and I've threatened her if she thinks she can kick the bucket already.

Ain't got much advice there. Mine was literally God sending me on an insane life detour to find her. She's not poals perfect woman, but she knows what's right and tries her hardest. Not to be a dick to all women, but they are easily swayed. When we first got married, she was the most vanilla mega church esque girl. Now she makes racist jokes and shares Hitler memes. Play the long game my friend. I'm rooting for ya. We're all in this together.

[–] • 1 pt

And keep your stick on the ice.

[–] • 1 pt

Amen. Truly you have found a fertile ground. I want one too.

[–] • 3 pts

How much Jew propaganda? To much my fren too much. Ill give you two that we ignored. Not Bed Sharing and not doing cry it out. Since the dawn of man parents slept with there kids, for warmth, and saftey. Yes if your a fat drunk you might crush the kid. However, we did for both are daughters. You learn to sleep very lightly. In fact the first year I woke up multiple times just to check on my girls. Also breast feeding is easier when mom can sleep and feed at the same time.

Cry it out. This one pissises me off. Basically in the 70's it became trendy to have your baby in a seperate room. And to get them to sleep. You let them cry in terror alone untill they are so exhausted they sleep. Teaching your child youre not coming to save them. With bed sharing our kids went to bed easily and at the same time as we did.

Any advice that puts a rift between you and your kids. Ignore.

[–] • 2 pts

That's the best thing in life. Watching them grow up is the best thing I've done. Yeah it's hard at times and it raises the amount of worries you'll have to go through but it's also extremely rewarding. You don't know what unconditional love is before you have a kid.

[–] • 0 pt

Could you perhaps make a series of posts on the topic? Like a couple paragraphs of observations across 6 weekly posts or so? It would do wonders for me and the greater Poal community.

[–] • 1 pt

This is not reddit buddy. I've said all that matters on the subject. We all make mistakes while parenting. It's a constant learning curve. The more you do it the better you get. You can read a thousand books about it and still don't know anything about it. Theory is nothing in comparison to actually making a human being and educate him/her to become a functioning member of the community.

[–] • 0 pt

I mean just we'd all benefit from your thoughts on the journey. Wherever the info takes us.

[–] • 2 pts

Fuck .

Ask him why he had kids.

Make him fucking answer you.

parenting is worthwhile. Especially when you see all the faults you ever had inside your kid.

Parent the Child.

It's a fucking blood sacrifice.

[–] • 2 pts

Haha well I'm feeling soft today. Also I really want more people to be encouraged to have kids so its one issue I probably won't be too gruff about.

[–] • 1 pt

Theo Theo Theo!! Tell me more. Also tell me that you want more writing prompts. We enjoy your company!

[–] • 1 pt

Just look deep inside yourself.

What do you see?

Are you an atheist who believes in evolution?

Nothing wrong with that, but admit what you believe.

Evolution is nothing more than a simple series of nucleic acids that figured out how to repeat themselves, over and over and over.

You're just a husk for nucleic acids, fucking black bitches without condoms because that's the best probability the nucleic acids have to reproduce themselves.

Or maybe you're here because of God.

God talk to you recently?

Did he let you know how much he loves you?

Did he tell you that he really does care?

[–] • 1 pt

Thanks

[–] • 1 pt

Read John Lock: Some thoughts on education

[–] • 1 pt

I truly understand that Whites desperately need to reproduce well above replacement rate.