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I have no idea what to ask or how to bring up the subject? Im also getting very mixed signals from my gf on what type of reaction to prepare for, which is making me question if i should instead wait it out until 2023 or maybe even summer

I have no idea what to ask or how to bring up the subject? Im also getting very mixed signals from my gf on what type of reaction to prepare for, which is making me question if i should instead wait it out until 2023 or maybe even summer

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Imo if you don't know how to confidently know (I'm not saying you don't) that your girlfriend is 'your wife' within 3-6-9 months minimal, then you aren't going to know how to know and if you're prolonging you're just waiting for it to get ruined. That's MSM's culture opinion on how to play things out. We all know what that's intention is - ruined relationships, divorce and barely a kid or two.

Relationships naturally deteriorate. That's just a force of nature thing. If you don't wife your girlfriend with at least a year and a half then it's just going to go bad. And if you stick around anyways. Well.

Wife's should be child'ed within 2 years of marriage. Shoot for at least 3 kids if you want the marriage to remain good. These are just all the force of nature timings and statistics.

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Imo if you don't know how to confidently know (I'm not saying you don't) that your girlfriend is 'your wife' within 3-6-9 months minimal,

I know for sure, however unless i can get a 100% affirm reaction from the parents, im having a hard time justifying asking them. This has essentially caused a riff on my side because i tend to become a deer in the headlights when i cant gauge an unknown variable