Do you have a future? Are you hard working, sincere, honest, ambitious, patient, and kind? If not why tf are you worried about someone else when you need to work on yourself.
Yes I would say so, in terms of my own self im very hard working and persistent, but have difficult times navigating the current cluterfuck that is clown world. However my intentions are always pure
Do you have a real connection with the woman or is it just a physical longing? Parents can tell.
I would ssay i have a real connection, a lot of times when she gets too physical i actually stop her from going too far, since i want us to be married first before we get too physical.
How long have you been together? How long have you held a job? How long has it been serious enough to consider marriage? The older you get the more patient you get. A father will say no if you jump the gun because he has learned the value of patience.
Then man up, and ask in a respectful way.
We;ve been together around half the year, ive held down jobs for close to a decade now or so, im technically an upper level manager
Ask at a year, or a significant date to you near the year mark. If she can stay faithful for a year then it's good. That's for you and the father. Wait too long and he will think "you're getting the milk for free" don't wait long enough and he will think its driven by lust.
How old are you two? We can give better advice if we know your situation better.
a lot of times when she gets too physical i actually stop her from going too far, since i want us to be married first before we get too physical.
It isn't your job to preserve her virtue, if she has any. The fact that she is trying to have sex with you suggests that her past isn't perfect. If she has had sex before, then why shouldn't you have sex with her now?
If she isn't a virgin then asking her father doesn't make sense. That ship has sailed.
If she has had sex before, then why shouldn't you have sex with her now?
She wants to wait until marriage, so whilst she is not a virgin, the last time she had sex was close to 20 years ago now
If she isn't a virgin then asking her father doesn't make sense. That ship has sailed.
Hence my confusion honestly, she's well up there in age (in her 30s), as am i (upper 30s) so asking her dad seems ... retarded? But on the other hand, if that's what she wants, then i guess it doesn't matter much.
Part of my theory is that she wants to get married to get rid of her family induced guilt complex over being intimate, thinking being married will make them go away. But she'll find out, that getting married doesn't make those feelings suddenly go away
Ok, I read threw a few of your past threads. Here is the deal:
A woman can't live her own life. She always has to play a part in someone else's. She needs leadership, and she will always follow the stronger leader.
Your girlfriend is led by her family right now. She wants to be led by you. The problem is that her family is strong and you are weak.
You have shown your weakness to her repeatedly: You haven't forced her into sex. You try to make her happy instead of expecting that your mere presence is enough to make her ecstatic.
She doesn't want you to ask her father, she wants you to claim her. Her retarded way of communicating that do you is suggesting that you ask her father. Her hope is that he says "no" and then you say "well fuck you, I'm taking her anyway". Women are stupid when it comes to romance.
This is all basic stuff btw, you would know it if you put any effort into reading game/pickup. This is why people keep asking you how old you are. Your level of understanding women is zero.
So here is what you need to do if you want to save this relationship:
Invite her over. Take her to your bedroom. Ejaculate into her vagina (not into a condom). Don't try to "earn" it. She is yours if you want her, claim what you want. She wants to be your slave, not your partner.
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