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I have no idea what to ask or how to bring up the subject? Im also getting very mixed signals from my gf on what type of reaction to prepare for, which is making me question if i should instead wait it out until 2023 or maybe even summer

I have no idea what to ask or how to bring up the subject? Im also getting very mixed signals from my gf on what type of reaction to prepare for, which is making me question if i should instead wait it out until 2023 or maybe even summer

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[–] [deleted] • 1 pt

I dont personally feel rushed, but ive been receiving lots of conflicting information from multiple sources which is confusing me. My church was telling me dont wait, do it now. Than she was saying we should wait, but now she wants to get married soon and wants me to ask her parents. But if i cant gauge the parents' reactions, i dont even want to touch the subject, since my gf has given me very very conflicting reactions on what to expect from the parents.

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It’s purely between you and her. Nothing else is even close to important. Learn to work out things like this between you, there will be countless ones in the future.