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I have no idea what to ask or how to bring up the subject? Im also getting very mixed signals from my gf on what type of reaction to prepare for, which is making me question if i should instead wait it out until 2023 or maybe even summer

I have no idea what to ask or how to bring up the subject? Im also getting very mixed signals from my gf on what type of reaction to prepare for, which is making me question if i should instead wait it out until 2023 or maybe even summer

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Im in the 30-40 range in terms of age, and ive always followed the same principles since i was a teenager.

How have those principles worked for you? How many White children do you have? Zero, right?

I used to have similar principles, but then about 15 years ago I realized that they were holding me back. Now I have five White children. You have zero. It is because you choose to remain ignorant of the true nature of women.

I'm just gonna wait it out and hold off on any marriage talk for now, until the family gets to know me better. I think at the end of the day, family is more important than whatever happiness or completion i can bring to the table.

I would completely agree with you in a normal situation. However, she is old and if you want to impregnate her the clock is ticking. You and she both come from dysfunctional families, so her family is not actually more important than what you bring to the table.

As for the sex she has hinted (not that subtlely either) that she wants me to have sex with her

She is pushing you into sex even though you haven't known her a year. Do you really think that she has gone almost two decades without it? You are being naive.

however I've decided to hold her to her own words

She isn't you son. Never listen to a woman's words; listen to the emotions that she is attempting to communicate. You can't a hold a woman to her words. If you have even the most basic information about game/pickup you would know this. You are deeply and willfully ignorant. You have no excuse.

My mom always taught me from a young age that there are certain boundaries you dont cross

Your mom abused you. She taught you nothing of value. You are in your late 30s, it is time to grow up and move on.

and my dad made sure to remind me daily that anything i needed or wanted was to be casually ignored in favor of mom

Your dad enabled your mom's abuse. Nothing he did is of value.

You need to take charge of your life. You need to grow up. You are in your late 30s and you have a child's understanding of relationships. Shame on you for milking your abuse. You have no excuse now; it is time to grow up. Read game/pickup.