WelcomeUser Guide
ToSPrivacyCanary
DonateBugsLicense

©2025 Poal.co

585

What are your reasons?

What are your reasons?

(post is archived)

[–] 5 pts

It’s easier just to say I’m not vaxxed. Their reaction will then tell me. Otherwise, like another commenter said they’re usually proud of themselves and will tell the world.

Not to be too speculative, but I recognize you from your other post…are you trying to figure out how to ascertain if a potential mate is vaxxed?

[–] 2 pts

I guess, but also wanted to ask friends who I haven't seen in a while. It's kind of a bummer though because if they are, well they'll ask me, and I'm not, and it creates a kind of barrier that shouldn't need to be there.

[–] 6 pts

If someone doesn’t want to be your friend because they’re vaxxed and you aren’t, then they weren’t your friend to begin with.

I have many friends who are vaxxed and they know I’m not. We may disagree on certain things, but we’re still friends. Those people are decent people and though I think they’re stupid in that area, they aren’d bad people.

But if any of them were to be shitty to me because I chose not to get jabbed, then they could fuck right off because that would mean they’re shitty people to begin with.

With women/dating, I would typically get the hard stuff out of the way at the onset.

IE: “I support Trump and am pro-life. If you don’t support Trump and are pro-choice, that’s your prerogative but then let’s not waste each other’s time because this won’t work. Also, I’m not getting that stupid shot. If you have a problem with that, this won’t work.”

That’s literally what I’d say once we actually started talking. There’s no upside to waiting 1-3 months to find those things out about a potential mate. All that would do is cost me precious time.

LOL and some women would then try to soften their stance on say, abortion for example. I literally had two women get upset because I didn’t want to date them once I found out they were pro choice. One of them tried to act like because it didn’t bother her that I’m pro-life, it shouldn’t bother me that she’s pro-choice. I was like “yeah you’re right, I totally shouldn’t be concerned that the future mother of my children has no qualms with potentially murdering them. Yeah I don’t think so.”

She then wanted to get into a debate about abortion. I was like “listen, I’m not on this site to debate the merits of my moral code. This isn’t Reddit. We’re not a fit and that’s fine, but my time is valuable and I have other women I need to interview here.”

[–] 1 pt

Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned