WelcomeUser Guide
ToSPrivacyCanary
DonateBugsLicense

©2026 Poal.co

1.2K

Him and his wife are both recovering from being drug addicts a few weeks ago, which i admire. However, im having a hard time justifying if i should help him or not, since i wanted to use him for some minor contracting work i need done. However, he's not the most reliable man, and he has a lot of issues with anger management, temper, swearing, etc. Not that he isn't a nice guy, but part of me wonders if this is a good idea, or if he needs more time to get his crap together.

Him and his wife are both recovering from being drug addicts a few weeks ago, which i admire. However, im having a hard time justifying if i should help him or not, since i wanted to use him for some minor contracting work i need done. However, he's not the most reliable man, and he has a lot of issues with anger management, temper, swearing, etc. Not that he isn't a nice guy, but part of me wonders if this is a good idea, or if he needs more time to get his crap together.

(post is archived)

[–] 1 pt

No. Getting off drugs is never accomplished in a week, people take years and relapse over and over. Just because a guy is trying to do right doesn't mean he will succeed and it's not your job to make him succeed, it's his. Its generally not a good idea mixing social and work anyway.