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We had a disagreement yesterday and now im wondering if we should break up. She dragged me to one of her friend's place, and this woman talked for a straight hour about herself, her past, her family, really it was more of a monologue where you act more like a viewer. She mentioned the whole Israel are the chosen, etc. So then I tried to drop some knowledge about some historical events, but then they and to an extent my gf both started insulting me about how i was too "book smart" and needed to be more street smart. This was weird to me, because never in my life have i ever been insulted for being too smart before. It then begs the question, how exactly is that a bad thing? They were essentially making fun of me for not knowing how to live on the streets of some dumpster shit hole liberal city, as if that's a bad thing ...

Anyways my gf said last night that i have all the qualities she was looking for, but she doesn't know if she can live with my social awkwardness. Really she wants someone who she never has to worry about or be embarrassed for, and she wants the relationship to never suffer or go through any hiccup of any kind. I ended up just leaving early yesterday, because to an extent this conversation and the one prior hurt pretty bad. Now I just feel really weird and don't really know what to do or how to feel today

We had a disagreement yesterday and now im wondering if we should break up. She dragged me to one of her friend's place, and this woman talked for a straight hour about herself, her past, her family, really it was more of a monologue where you act more like a viewer. She mentioned the whole Israel are the chosen, etc. So then I tried to drop some knowledge about some historical events, but then they and to an extent my gf both started insulting me about how i was too "book smart" and needed to be more street smart. This was weird to me, because never in my life have i ever been insulted for being too smart before. It then begs the question, how exactly is that a bad thing? They were essentially making fun of me for not knowing how to live on the streets of some dumpster shit hole liberal city, as if that's a bad thing ... Anyways my gf said last night that i have all the qualities she was looking for, but she doesn't know if she can live with my social awkwardness. Really she wants someone who she never has to worry about or be embarrassed for, and she wants the relationship to never suffer or go through any hiccup of any kind. I ended up just leaving early yesterday, because to an extent this conversation and the one prior hurt pretty bad. Now I just feel really weird and don't really know what to do or how to feel today

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It's very true that women don't want things fixed or answers to their questions/problems. It's also true that Men are fixers, problem solvers, and always try to have answers. This is important information that I would have liked to have had when I was very young! REMEMBER THAT, ANY OF YOU THAT ARE RAISING BOYS! I believe that the main thing you should take away from this experience is the fact that she made fun of you! That is a bigger deal breaker to me than any of the rest of it. Your woman should NEVER EVER make fun of you, especially around other people! If I were in your place I would walk for that reason alone. This shows that she has no respect for you. It is possible to gain respect from a woman but it could take Years of your life to do it! If you two had children she would be just as disrespectful to you in front of them, meaning that your children would grow up disrespecting you also! You might, just Might, eventually gain her respect, but you would never gain respect from your children.