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We had a disagreement yesterday and now im wondering if we should break up. She dragged me to one of her friend's place, and this woman talked for a straight hour about herself, her past, her family, really it was more of a monologue where you act more like a viewer. She mentioned the whole Israel are the chosen, etc. So then I tried to drop some knowledge about some historical events, but then they and to an extent my gf both started insulting me about how i was too "book smart" and needed to be more street smart. This was weird to me, because never in my life have i ever been insulted for being too smart before. It then begs the question, how exactly is that a bad thing? They were essentially making fun of me for not knowing how to live on the streets of some dumpster shit hole liberal city, as if that's a bad thing ...

Anyways my gf said last night that i have all the qualities she was looking for, but she doesn't know if she can live with my social awkwardness. Really she wants someone who she never has to worry about or be embarrassed for, and she wants the relationship to never suffer or go through any hiccup of any kind. I ended up just leaving early yesterday, because to an extent this conversation and the one prior hurt pretty bad. Now I just feel really weird and don't really know what to do or how to feel today

We had a disagreement yesterday and now im wondering if we should break up. She dragged me to one of her friend's place, and this woman talked for a straight hour about herself, her past, her family, really it was more of a monologue where you act more like a viewer. She mentioned the whole Israel are the chosen, etc. So then I tried to drop some knowledge about some historical events, but then they and to an extent my gf both started insulting me about how i was too "book smart" and needed to be more street smart. This was weird to me, because never in my life have i ever been insulted for being too smart before. It then begs the question, how exactly is that a bad thing? They were essentially making fun of me for not knowing how to live on the streets of some dumpster shit hole liberal city, as if that's a bad thing ... Anyways my gf said last night that i have all the qualities she was looking for, but she doesn't know if she can live with my social awkwardness. Really she wants someone who she never has to worry about or be embarrassed for, and she wants the relationship to never suffer or go through any hiccup of any kind. I ended up just leaving early yesterday, because to an extent this conversation and the one prior hurt pretty bad. Now I just feel really weird and don't really know what to do or how to feel today

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[–] 41 pts

Why would you ever attempt to have an intellectual conversation with a woman?

[–] [deleted] 10 pts

Why would you ever attempt to have an intellectual conversation with a woman?

There it is, the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth. Women are all about feels and she felt awkward because the jewish psycho 'friend' didn't like what you were saying. I think you should go fuck the kikess and make her break up with you. Tell her you were learning to be more street smart and shit.

[–] [deleted] 9 pts

I dont think there is such a thing as an intellectual conversation with a woman, it feels more like being an emotional tampon or listening to verbal vomit live. A lot of times, I also noticed that I can "fix" what a woman says in dozens of words, into something as simple as 3 or 4. Women are NOT better communicators, contrary to the media, they just love to talk talk talk, talk your ear off. And when you try to interject because not all of us can understand 50 years of back story walking into a conversation, you're branded rude for asking irrelevant questions. As if i'm supposed to just know these things ....

[–] 34 pts

Women do not want their problems to be solved, they want their problems to be heard.

[–] [deleted] 6 pts

See that was my mistake right there, assuming they wanted an actual answer. Really, i should have let her rant and said nothing and i would have come out some kind of mystic saint instead

[–] 5 pts

Damnit. I needed to hear this at this exact moment. I'm currently going through something similar and this comment really calmed me down. Much appreciated, mate

[–] 4 pts

Because the problem isn't the problem, it's that she needs to process her emotions and she craves validation.

[–] 2 pts

This should be a permanent heading on the front page and it’s universally true

[–] 2 pts

Actually, they DO eventually want it solved.. but before that happens, they want to bitch/cry about it and be heard..they want to be held, coddled, listened to first and foremost.. if you let them do that and get all the tears or emotion out, then and only then should you bring up ideas to solve it.

You are absolutely right on this one. That's why I begin every convo with my wife with do you want me to fix it or do you want me to listen? Usually stops her from ranting in the first place which is nice.

[–] 5 pts

Women are fucking awful communicators.

I've yet to meet a woman who gave a succinct story.

[–] 2 pts

Top comment. Still underrated.

[–] 2 pts

Why would you ever attempt to have an intellectual conversation with a woman?

Dude's larping for relationship advice on Poal, he's a whole 2 layers of abstraction away from your question as far as irreconcilable naivete.

[–] 1 pt

It does read like a LARP but maybe he is serious and hurt and has fucking no one else to talk to. It's getting bad out there.

[–] 0 pt

It's only going to get worse before it gets worse. Only the strong will survive.

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That's an opinion.

[–] 1 pt

Poal ain't a blog, bro. No opinion necessary to make it clear this isn't the right place.

[–] 0 pt

I've tried with you a few times.