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We had a disagreement yesterday and now im wondering if we should break up. She dragged me to one of her friend's place, and this woman talked for a straight hour about herself, her past, her family, really it was more of a monologue where you act more like a viewer. She mentioned the whole Israel are the chosen, etc. So then I tried to drop some knowledge about some historical events, but then they and to an extent my gf both started insulting me about how i was too "book smart" and needed to be more street smart. This was weird to me, because never in my life have i ever been insulted for being too smart before. It then begs the question, how exactly is that a bad thing? They were essentially making fun of me for not knowing how to live on the streets of some dumpster shit hole liberal city, as if that's a bad thing ...

Anyways my gf said last night that i have all the qualities she was looking for, but she doesn't know if she can live with my social awkwardness. Really she wants someone who she never has to worry about or be embarrassed for, and she wants the relationship to never suffer or go through any hiccup of any kind. I ended up just leaving early yesterday, because to an extent this conversation and the one prior hurt pretty bad. Now I just feel really weird and don't really know what to do or how to feel today

We had a disagreement yesterday and now im wondering if we should break up. She dragged me to one of her friend's place, and this woman talked for a straight hour about herself, her past, her family, really it was more of a monologue where you act more like a viewer. She mentioned the whole Israel are the chosen, etc. So then I tried to drop some knowledge about some historical events, but then they and to an extent my gf both started insulting me about how i was too "book smart" and needed to be more street smart. This was weird to me, because never in my life have i ever been insulted for being too smart before. It then begs the question, how exactly is that a bad thing? They were essentially making fun of me for not knowing how to live on the streets of some dumpster shit hole liberal city, as if that's a bad thing ... Anyways my gf said last night that i have all the qualities she was looking for, but she doesn't know if she can live with my social awkwardness. Really she wants someone who she never has to worry about or be embarrassed for, and she wants the relationship to never suffer or go through any hiccup of any kind. I ended up just leaving early yesterday, because to an extent this conversation and the one prior hurt pretty bad. Now I just feel really weird and don't really know what to do or how to feel today

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[–] 41 pts

Why would you ever attempt to have an intellectual conversation with a woman?

[–] [deleted] 10 pts

Why would you ever attempt to have an intellectual conversation with a woman?

There it is, the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth. Women are all about feels and she felt awkward because the jewish psycho 'friend' didn't like what you were saying. I think you should go fuck the kikess and make her break up with you. Tell her you were learning to be more street smart and shit.

[–] [deleted] 9 pts

I dont think there is such a thing as an intellectual conversation with a woman, it feels more like being an emotional tampon or listening to verbal vomit live. A lot of times, I also noticed that I can "fix" what a woman says in dozens of words, into something as simple as 3 or 4. Women are NOT better communicators, contrary to the media, they just love to talk talk talk, talk your ear off. And when you try to interject because not all of us can understand 50 years of back story walking into a conversation, you're branded rude for asking irrelevant questions. As if i'm supposed to just know these things ....

[–] 34 pts

Women do not want their problems to be solved, they want their problems to be heard.

[–] [deleted] 6 pts

See that was my mistake right there, assuming they wanted an actual answer. Really, i should have let her rant and said nothing and i would have come out some kind of mystic saint instead

[–] 5 pts

Damnit. I needed to hear this at this exact moment. I'm currently going through something similar and this comment really calmed me down. Much appreciated, mate

[–] 4 pts

Because the problem isn't the problem, it's that she needs to process her emotions and she craves validation.

[–] 2 pts

This should be a permanent heading on the front page and it’s universally true

[–] 2 pts

Actually, they DO eventually want it solved.. but before that happens, they want to bitch/cry about it and be heard..they want to be held, coddled, listened to first and foremost.. if you let them do that and get all the tears or emotion out, then and only then should you bring up ideas to solve it.

You are absolutely right on this one. That's why I begin every convo with my wife with do you want me to fix it or do you want me to listen? Usually stops her from ranting in the first place which is nice.

[–] 5 pts

Women are fucking awful communicators.

I've yet to meet a woman who gave a succinct story.

[–] 2 pts

Top comment. Still underrated.

[–] 2 pts

Why would you ever attempt to have an intellectual conversation with a woman?

Dude's larping for relationship advice on Poal, he's a whole 2 layers of abstraction away from your question as far as irreconcilable naivete.

[–] 1 pt

It does read like a LARP but maybe he is serious and hurt and has fucking no one else to talk to. It's getting bad out there.

[–] 0 pt

It's only going to get worse before it gets worse. Only the strong will survive.

[–] 0 pt

That's an opinion.

[–] 1 pt

Poal ain't a blog, bro. No opinion necessary to make it clear this isn't the right place.

[–] 0 pt

I've tried with you a few times.

[–] 20 pts (edited )

She's wrong, but handling it correct. You're right but handling it wrong. She already broke up with and it's just a formality now.

e; With your update I think there's hope. I don't think she's made it a formality. However I don't know her and her mannerisms or ways of being so I have no way of knowing how to diagnose this. Don't be a preddit, numale, faggot )))MGTOW((( and assume she's already fucking around. Take your knowledge of her and apply it to this situation and think through her mind's eye. Read [Johari window]. Frame your arguments with that. Frame your life with that. Learn to understand how other people will understand you, learn to understand how other people understand others, learn to understand how other people understand themselves. When you get good at this people will begin to dislike you (not really) but be incapable of explaining why. You'll tend to be correct about situations far more often than you should be but you will also be unable to explain why.

[–] 19 pts

What I read: Your gf ganged up on you in front of the monologue queen to embarrass you. That's on her. She'll do it again as signaled in the aftermath where gf basically told you that you're HER arm candy to be seen but not heard. Your gf and the host made it socially awkward for you as the guest in treating you with disrespect. You're being told that social media narrative smart is superior to book smart (no examination of facts allowed).

Your questions to yourself are: Can I live with being treated this way and expected to agree and keep quiet even when I disagree, just to keep the peace? Can I live in that box for the rest of my life? When can I assert my opinion and what I want, and why am I even asking that question?

Good luck.

[–] 2 pts

When you start talking about the future the whole thing gets 1000 times worse after the children come along! Goes to a whole new dimension when she is disrespecting him in front of their children!

[–] 13 pts

Ya I think she's right

but she doesn't know if she can live with my social awkwardness.

She just dumped you and you didn't realize it

[–] [deleted] 4 pts (edited )

I guess so, I didnt realize it at the time. She is being slightly more distant today

[–] 23 pts

Don't even contact her anymore. Hit the gym, faggot.

You don't need a bitch that throws you under the bus in front of company. You deserve better

[–] 1 pt

100% this. You need a warrior queen who stands by your side and bats away jewish psychos, not someone who sides with them and treats you like garbage.

[–] 8 pts

Fuck that, she's already sucking another dick probably.

[–] 0 pt

https://www.amazon.com/Rules-Tested-Secrets-Capturing-Mr-Right/dp/0722532504/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr=

Sounds to me like you are being conned. Look into MGTOW. And if you are still determined afterwards to buy the cow instead of the milk, at the very least, find one that is not a high maintenance cuntasaurus.

[–] [deleted] 8 pts

All women are retarded. Get used to it or be single.

[–] 4 pts

This actually needs to be higher up on this thread.

There is merit to other things said, and OP should navigate/tolerate social waters better, but there are no perfect women.

There aren't even sane women. They are all batshit bi polar up and down messes.

You find one with an acceptable/manageable level of retard, pretty enough she gets you going, is good with kids, and deal with it.

But 100%, he needs some wake up call in the power dynamic of his relationship.

He needs to give so much less of a shit about her, and she needs to know that.

[–] 0 pt

They all cheat as well. Get use to your bed smelling like niggers or be single.

[+] [deleted] 7 pts
[–] 6 pts

Dump her, stay away from liberal bitches, especially if they are all tatted up.

[–] 5 pts (edited )

Dump her before she eventually dumps you. Get the upper hand. If you see a future don't, but it sounds like you already are questioning it which is a red flag.

Because White men are treated horribly by the MSM, liberal society and have no privilege whatsoever, you'll feel much better if you make the first move and end it. This will teach her to shut the fuck in her future relationships. Women are good for companionship if they know their role, this one doesn't seem to understand that.

[–] 5 pts

Not submissive, leave/10

[–] 4 pts

If you dont break up with her she will break up with you. Its dead jim. I could go further but dont need to.

[–] 4 pts

Is the pussy worth the aggravation? Act based on that answer.

Is it worth having to listen to inane babble , and putting up with her narcissistic dimwitted friends ?

If it is , just put up with it and feign interest , if not tell her to kick rocks

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