Forgiveness | Poal: Say what you want.

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I learned those same graces and took for granted that I would never forget them, but here I am. Starting again to wish God’s blessings on ever some of the people I most dearly need to forgive. My appreciation for your thoughts which I will attempt to heed again.

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this is how I forgave my mother. I expected her to be an adult, a person who put their children first. I expected the same actions from her as I did from my father.

Once I realized women are children, and she was basically just a 35 year old child when she made selfish choices, I forgave her. It was MY ignorance that lead me to believe women were capable of selflessness.

I used to put it like this. Ask a woman...

Ma'am you can have $1000 right now OR you can let a friend have $10,000 right now BUT you cannot take credit for them getting the money in any way and they will never know it was your choice.

99% of women take their 1k, if they can't post on facebook or gain social status for their virtuosity then they will not be selfless.

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Interesting and most probably true. I came to similar conclusions with my mother. Women are like children no matter if they have kids or not. I don't even mean that in an offensive way, it's simply the reality we need to come to terms with. Obviously you can't suggest anything like this to women, let alone your mom or girlfriend unless you want to get screamed at. The problem is how skewed the natural order of things has become over many many years. Women and mothers have lost the plot and don't know their place anymore.

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“Mine is a most peaceable disposition. My wishes are: a humble cottage with a thatched roof, but a good bed, good food, the freshest milk and butter, flowers before my window, and a few fine trees before my door."

"And if God wants to make my happiness complete, he will grant me the joy of seeing some six or seven of my enemies hanging from those trees."

"Before death I shall, moved in my heart, forgive them all the wrong they did me in their lifetime. One must, it is true, forgive one's enemies."

"But not before they have been hanged.” - Heinrich Heine

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quoting a kike on poal, what a silly billy.

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something...something...even a blind squirrel...something...

jews were also involved in the invention of nuclear power. Oy vey, you want we should sit in the dark, meshugga?

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Some shit you just truly can't forgive. You may want to , but really , you can't. Those you have to give over to God

God doesn't move away from us , we move away from Him. Good thing is we can move back too

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There's a fine line between "forgiveness" and being a cuck for manipulative loxists.

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This is internal and loxists are forbidden here. I’m thinking on a bigger issue. Once I overcome this one, the rest of loxists and their minions will look small and harmless.

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But they're not harmless. Loxists are destroying our people through psychological warfare.

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I would also ask why does God seem so far away,...

He's not though. If God is so far away then you've pushed him away (no judgement from me here). God is within you and always has been. If you feel lost, just talk to him. That's it.

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Just keep in mind that "forgiving" does not mean "going back into the fire."

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Noted. There is no fire just some burning embers that need doused, but the real deal is an internal remodeling to oust the causes of my discontent.

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You do not need to forgive.

You need to act.

Not acting while you can, is truly unforgivable.

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Forgive and Forget are two different things.

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I will not forget.

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Tell me about how God seems so far away.

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Too many other voices crowding out any chance of hearing God when he answers, or maybe I’m too filled with other anger and disappointment to allow the love and joy I’ve always known to come in. I almost reached high enough tonight to get a glimpse but it faded so quickly. I need more time alone and reflect.Any poetic words of advice me tonight Theo? I’m open.

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By what means are you seeking God?

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Forgive your mother and father. They gave birth to you in flesh. But in order to be born again in spirit, you have to forgive them. Your parents are attached to you and are playing God. Especially your mother. That's why you need to forgive them. That will enable God to enter and become your father. God can't help people because they see their parents as their Creator. But the parents only gave birth to you. God created you and your parents. Because your parents weren't perfect, they traumatized you with hate and anger and fear. You resent your parents because of this but you don't realize it. That's why when you forgive them God can step in an start removing the hatred, anger and fear from your heart. Start praying every morning and night but silent. Ignore all your thoughts because every thought is a lie. Don't pray for anything because you don't know what you need. Only God knows what you need. Just be still. Remember, all thoughts are lies. It's Satan keeping you confused. God will speak to you in a voiceless voice and will wake you up bit by bit. https://youtu.be/JKe31L04Rl4

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I appreciate you taking the time to answer and your thoughts being considered.

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You chose that song so quickly after my question, yet you nailed the points of hope, courage, fear and loyalty; the struggles we go through. Thank you for the reminder at this point in time. I will do my best. All my best to you.

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I want to give you more credit for your post because you deserve more.

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For me, I think true forgiveness comes with deep understanding. We were all born into this confusing shithole, with clueless parents, confused grandparents, frustrating families, and mind-numbing cultures built up from massive societal confusion - and then at a young age we are told to fend for ourselves. Is it any wonder that mistakes are made - each and every day, continuously, by almost everyone?

To me it's a wonder that anyone even begins to wake up and that we get along as well as we do.

My answer to your question was to be alone, for many years - preferring nature and solitude to interaction with others until finally one day I found out who I was and understood more of what was going on. Then the forgiveness came and even the love began to return as I now understood more of the pitfalls and troubles various members of my family went through as they grew up and lived, and the direct connection between their experiences, and the idiotic, harmful, ignorant, selfish choices they made.

The burden eventually lifted with this understanding, and I forgave them all - but I still prefer my solitude.

If God seems far away, spend time with flowers, trees, small birds, and gaze into the calm eyes of very young children. Enjoy more warm sunlight, cool breezes, and campfires.

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