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In terms of dating someone, is it better to wait it out for years, or just propose and ask after a few months? ive been asking my pastors, and they all mentioned time doesn't really matter, and some of the best marriages were ones where the dating window was super short ( up to 6 months). so then, seeing as ive been dating my girl for a few months, part of me wonders if proposing now is any worst than waiting it out until later? not sure what the pros and cons are, except for the eternal jew telling everyone dont get married, dont have kids, dont settle down, sleep around with a bunch of people, etc, etc

In terms of dating someone, is it better to wait it out for years, or just propose and ask after a few months? ive been asking my pastors, and they all mentioned time doesn't really matter, and some of the best marriages were ones where the dating window was super short ( up to 6 months). so then, seeing as ive been dating my girl for a few months, part of me wonders if proposing now is any worst than waiting it out until later? not sure what the pros and cons are, except for the eternal jew telling everyone dont get married, dont have kids, dont settle down, sleep around with a bunch of people, etc, etc

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[–] • 2 pts

Do a background check, what's her credit score, is she a previous offender, does she have an intact parental situation, does she get along with her siblings, what are her friends like, if Christian does she know what the trinity is and what the triune God is? Is she familiar with 13/59, how does she feel about alphabet street? Does she know about the satanic cult running things, khazariyan mafia, the degenerate entertainment industry, etc? The injection?

If you have the answers to these questions and more, then you might be good to go.

[–] • 2 pts

I would say those are just minimum basic requirements.

I would personally trace her bloodlines and look for any unsettled generational debts or unforgivable sins within her family tree. Perhaps her friends or friends of friends may have an infraction that went unchecked.

[–] [deleted] • 1 pt

if Christian

That's the first question. Why marry an unbeliever? Talk about heartache.

[–] • 0 pt

She might be open to believing or is a lost soul that needs sheparding.

[–] [deleted] • 1 pt

That is a recipe for disaster. At the very least, no sex or proposal before salvation and some serious sanctification.