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My elderly dad's(92) poa(my nephew, his grandson) dumped him in a nursing home without cause simply out of convenience. dad wants to go home to die poa wont let him. poa ran through checking acct and is now throwing everything away and getting it ready to sell. paying himself and his helper monkey. poa has $600000 cds of my dads that imo ought to be used to care for him at home (he's been on same farm since birth, was his grandparents) he built his house himself. i was caretaker to my dad and visit him everyday, and everyday he tells me he's tired, wants to go home to die. i'm so fucking mad right now, i don't understand how he can treat his grandfather this way. poa never visits doesn't attend to his needs at all. my dad is being tortured and stressing in a time that that shouldn't be. i wish i could be a mature adult and deal with this but i just want really bad luck to befall him (poa) i'm not even sure i have a question, i just needed to rant.

My elderly dad's(92) poa(my nephew, his grandson) dumped him in a nursing home without cause simply out of convenience. dad wants to go home to die poa wont let him. poa ran through checking acct and is now throwing everything away and getting it ready to sell. paying himself and his helper monkey. poa has $600000 cds of my dads that imo ought to be used to care for him at home (he's been on same farm since birth, was his grandparents) he built his house himself. i was caretaker to my dad and visit him everyday, and everyday he tells me he's tired, wants to go home to die. i'm so fucking mad right now, i don't understand how he can treat his grandfather this way. poa never visits doesn't attend to his needs at all. my dad is being tortured and stressing in a time that that shouldn't be. i wish i could be a mature adult and deal with this but i just want really bad luck to befall him (poa) i'm not even sure i have a question, i just needed to rant.

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[–] • 16 pts

Go get a free advise from a lawyer on how to get the POA. If Dad still has his mind, he can cancel the POA from nephew and give it to you and then you can visit Dad every day at his home instead of the nursing home.

[–] • 2 pts

Cheaper to just give cousin Vinny a few benjamins to break "POA"s kneecaps. If the warning isn't received, concrete shoes will fix the rest.

The best justice is vigilante justice.

[–] • 3 pts

If your nephew it's power of attorney but is fleecing your father of funds to pay for the nursing home they're going to kick him out and he's going to end up back at home anyway. But yeah you need to freeze the power of attorney with a lawyer ASAP.

My father did the same stupid shit with my brother, he made him power of attorney. And I asked my dad why the fuck would he do that. it's not so much because my brother is an idiot it's because my brother's wife is fucking Megan Merkel. not really Meghan Markle but is an idiot like Meghan Markle. and my brother doesn't have a fucking brain and he'll do everything that she says. And she might as well be a greedy jew fucking hook-nose bitch. and she manipulates him to the 10th degree and he's too stupid to realize because his thought is 'happy wife happy life' which is a pussy way to fucking go through life. My dad I'm sure hasn't changed it yet but the only good thing is he's in pretty relative good health so there's time.

[–] • 2 pts

Lawyer up and get that pos nephew on elderly abuse if you can. As fiduciary he has abusively overstepped his charges wishes.

[–] • 1 pt

Agreed, go after some justice here.

[–] • 0 pt

See to the old man’s needs and comfort first and foremost, then deliver if deserved that justice with prejudice. If possible. Wills, trusts, greed, stupidity and fuk’d up laws being the tripping points in these situations.

[–] • 1 pt (edited )

You need to drop your concern for your piece of shit nephew and make your father give poa to you. if his behaviour reflects his personality (which i think it does) then money will make it worse. I mean youre letting your father suffer. Actually your fault if he is in emotional distress right now. That is, if you dont act.

[–] • 1 pt (edited )

As immediate next of kin you should have no problem getting POA from a generation removed. Document everything the grandson has done that is outside of the wished of the father. Document everything. If this goes to suit make sure to specify that costs come from grandson directly and not the estate.

[–] • 0 pt

It is simpler than that the POA should have a clause about termination with written notice.

[–] • 1 pt

Typical woman just a bunch of bitching without even trying to solve the problem.

Your dad has poor judgement in giving his POA to the nephew. You can talk to a lawyer to see if a POA can be changed to you but your father has to be involved and able to show that he is still of sound mind. As long as your father can make decisions, he can revoke the POA at any time for any reason.

[–] [deleted] • 0 pt

If he had 6 gorillion in cd's the care home would have their mitts on that asap. Plenty of money to hire an atty and take care of pop in his home. Aint real bro.

[–] • 1 pt

You fucked this up pretty bad, and im willing to bet you're just jealous that your nephew beat you to the punch on getting that money.

Seriously the only way your nephew would have been able to get POA before you is if you didn't really give a shit about your dad and/or you and him a bad relationship.

The court won't give a shit about him being stuck in a shitty home, as long as it's operating legally they're gonna think it's fine.

Unless you're dad was already suffering from documented cognitive issues or your uncle bragged about making the old guy sign the paperwork online you're not gonna win shit in court. Nevermind the fact that it'll take at least 6 months to even get a final hearing if you're lucky. Which you probably won't be because your uncle has access to enough money to drag you around in court for at least a year. Most old people don't last that long in a home anyway.

Just accept you're either a moron, or you don't actually give a shit about your dad and try to let it go.

[–] • 1 pt

What is POA?

[–] • 3 pts

Power of Attorney

[–] • 0 pt

Oh, I thought it stood for Piece of Ass, well then, that changes this whole relationship entirely!

[–] • 0 pt

Which should be the same person that was designated as "Executor of the Trust"...rigjt?

[–] • 0 pt

Maybe back him into a place with no cameras and remind him that rules are great for punishing people but not for stopping them. And if he doesnt stop torturing your father youre gonna break his little neck. And the rules may see you punished for it, but he will still be dead.

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