Women are more programmable in sexual preferences. They need to be because they need to go after the most successful male rather than pure biological preference. What is the most successful male? That depends on a lot of context and isn't single dimensional. What makes a suit and tie attractive. Is it some innate biological instinct to like black clothing? No. It's a product of impression. Men on the other hand are biologically driven in their attraction. What actually looks hot on a woman doesn't go in and out of style. Maybe what women think looks hot changes but that's it. But my view on lesbians is it isn't actually about attraction. It's also more of a lifestyle. If a woman is sexually frustrated she will accept anything that will do the job. <- That obviously doesn't apply to all women, but some. And has maybe been trained by feminists to view everything men do as harmful and so might distance themselves from men. Remember, women are 100% impressionable. They will view everything they see as either good or bad entirely based on what they are taught, so it's very easy to teach them to hate men.